This kind of education is actually very dangerous, because parents can't always point out the direction for their children. When children grow up, their independent thoughts will gradually form. However, parents' instructions and children's independent thoughts will have serious contradictions. If you don't do it well, your child's rebellious mentality may be aroused very strongly. This will make the child run counter to the direction we want him to develop, and let the child go further and further on the wrong road.
In addition, even if the child does not appear rebellious, one day we will let go, we can't fly instead of the child, and the child will grow his own wings after all. If we had cut off the child's wings long ago, it would only make the child never fly.
Once out of our supervision, children will lose the motivation to move forward and find no goals and directions. However, parents' thoughts are always 20 years behind this era, and it is often difficult to keep up with the development of the times in all aspects. Therefore, our guidance is largely behind the times, which will have a huge negative impact on children's future.
Therefore, we must have a correct concept. Don't think that children who obey are good children, and those who dare not disobey their parents are children worthy of our praise. This idea is actually stupid. It is good for children to have their own ideas, which is worth encouraging.
Children and we are not on the same road. We should not use the authority of parents to suppress children in disgust, but should guide them correctly, so that their independent thoughts can be better established and matured faster, thus effectively guiding children to advance with their own thoughts.