1, communicate more and let children express their inner thoughts. Then give more respect and encouragement to children's ideas, especially encourage children to express their inner thoughts and actively fight for their own lives.

2. You can make friends with children properly, understand their inner world, respect their ideas, make children more and more mature and independent, and ease the contradictory relationship with them.

3. You can also spend more time with your children, especially traveling with them, going out for a walk, reading books, etc. It can make the parent-child relationship more harmonious and alleviate the problem of disobedience.