I brought the children myself, so I'm sure I can handle them with a domineering attitude, and I can handle them myself without bothering the elderly on both sides. Intergenerational education is not entirely a drawback, but we cannot completely ignore it. There are some problems. For example, the old people spoil their children too much, which is definitely not good for their growth. Young people and old people have different parenting concepts, and it is easy to produce contradictions, which come from intergenerational education.

Therefore, I worked harder and sent my children to kindergarten before going out to work. Although sometimes I hope to have an old man to help me, I really shouldn't work hard for me in my later years every time I think of my parents' hard work for most of my life. Since they are parents, they should shoulder the responsibility.

Actually, I don't think it's great. Whether intergenerational education is good or not is my own definition and inner feelings. If you feel that intergenerational education is not good, you can take care of your children by yourself, or you can take care of them very well, but you can only do it after comprehensive consideration. Otherwise, it is safer to choose intergenerational education, and it is also true that our concepts in old age will have a sense of distance from young people.

I already feel that intergenerational education is not good, so I must be able to take care of my children by myself. If you can't take care of your children, then in general, even if you don't think the education method is very good, most people will choose silence because you can't take care of your children.

Of course, if you are open-minded and can listen to other people's opinions, you can communicate with the elderly and work together to educate your children.

The intergenerational education has not been demonized, but the old and young have different parenting concepts. Past experience is no longer suitable for educating children now, so to take care of children, the educational concept must keep pace with the times.

The description of this problem is a bit extreme. It is also love for grandparents to take care of their children, and so are parents. But love is the best for children, and no parent doesn't think so. But what is the best? I think the most basic thing is not to spoil children. Some grandparents have no principles in front of their children, and I can't accept that their children have three incorrect views. The main reason is that I can't accept being separated from my children, so I choose to take care of them myself.