1, let go of indifference
In the way of parents' education, the most worrying thing is this laissez-faire way. Always looking for excuses to be busy with work and indifferent to children's life and study. Let children's thoughts and behaviors drift, basically have no communication with them, just take care of their three meals a day. The children educated in this way have weak feelings and are at a loss for the future.
2. Authoritative and authoritarian ways
Many parents especially like to educate their children with their parents' authority, and veto all their thoughts and behaviors with their parents' authority and autocracy. Let the children feel depressed and dare not say anything.
Force children to submit to their parents with authority and autocracy, and do not allow children to have their own views and ideas. The children educated in this way will feel inferior and timid, and even have no opinions.
3. Dictatorship and overbearing ways
Any thoughts and opinions of children are adopted by ruthless dictatorship and veto power. And in an overbearing way, it accumulates and suppresses children's subjective initiative, forcing children to live and study in their own way. The children educated in this way will also become overbearing and unreasonable.
In the process of children's growth, parents' attitudes towards children have formed a sharp contrast. When you are young, you often have fewer constraints; When they grow up, they will start to hear the reprimand of "don't do this" and start to feel it from their relatives.
Especially the father's strict discipline and even corporal punishment. Compared with the western countries, this strict social education model has bound China people in their childhood, and they have lost a lot of freedom and happiness.