? +Philosophical thinking is the cornerstone of personal dreams.

? +is a small contribution to society; It's a thousand miles in one step!

2) Talent: ancestors come before talents.

+Be a person who dares to carry the pot, learn to bear hardships and learn to take responsibility.

+Correct view of right and wrong, values.

Today, I found my child doing extended learning and even copying the answers. After I did it, I asked the child to confess whether it was extremely transparent. The child did not struggle, but decisively admitted it! But I am very reflective: "As a parent, am I walking too fast! Leading children to' complete' homework is to get more opportunities to play! " On the spot, we wondered if dad had left you too much homework. We don't have to do these extended homework. Let's start with being a man and write the Analects of Confucius, reading of the analects of confucius, OK? ? The feedback from the child was very strong at that time. He wanted to finish the problem of copying the answer by himself, and he insisted on doing the extended problem. To this end, I reflect and resolutely implement it. We mainly pay attention to attitude, reduce the load, and let the children relax, which may make the children rush, go too far, and even cover their ears!

"Less is more, slow is faster", China's golden mean thinking, dialectical thinking! Even if the last one is not shameful, it is also the result of his efforts! It's a shame for the Olympic champion to play doping, which is a lifelong loss. As the saying goes: "Jun Jun is a minister, father and son!" , the right relationship, each in his place!

Therefore, I have to accept the status quo of the child and can't convey anxiety! In fact, with the bottom line thinking, how can children not get into college, but people with positive energy are also welcome in society! Instead, he will take a shortcut and take a side door. In the future, he will be surrounded by such people, close to black ink and close to the law of attraction. By that time, our parents will only say don't do it every day, it's useless!

Historian Carlyle once said, "Change yourself, and there will be one less villain in the world." Parents should remember that change needs to start from themselves.

Less is more, and slow is fast!

? +Previous cognition is only efficient. Zeng Guofan's "clumsiness" is to strengthen the sage's thought and adhere to the twelve daily classes!

? +Refreshing cognition: In children's education, such philosophical thinking is actually like a seesaw!

++We ask less, and the child asks for it himself, which may stimulate his inner motivation! And where is the internal motivation I am looking for? Perhaps it is under this cognition that the more I ask, the less children think!

++Although before going to bed, the children told me that I would roll the rolls tomorrow, and I wanted to eat porridge in the morning, saving time, just like eating it in the morning.

++With the bottom line thinking of accepting children, it seems that my anxiety is much less. This is also a great feedback that this incident brought to me!

+Actually, my own work, family, social life, wealth, etc. It is dialectical thinking that less is more, and slow is fast!

+Re-recording: I am constantly aware of my words every day, and I am constantly thinking, am I walking too fast? I will accompany the camp with the efficiency manual and write a diary together, which will definitely make the consciousness in my mind clear from point to line, from line to surface!

? +cognitive upgrade: constantly refresh your cognition. When God closes the door, he will open a window! Therefore, if you keep growing and thinking, you will definitely have a better life.