1, when crying, give the child a hug. When a child cries badly, don't directly reprimand him for "don't cry", but choose to hug him and let the child know that his father understands him and doesn't want to make him sad. Wait until the child's mood is stable before asking the reason why the child is crying.

2. Understand children's needs. When a child cries because he can't meet his own needs, as a father, he should not compromise because of the child's crying, but ask the child her needs and analyze whether this requirement is reasonable. In the process of confirming with your child, slowly stabilize your child's emotions and then make sense.

3. Respect, recognize and accept children's emotions, and let children learn to express, discuss solutions with children, and gradually let children understand that "crying" is not the solution to the problem and understand the rationality of their actions.