Parenting experts say that frustration education can occupy a very important position in school education and family education, but in real life, few parents will exercise their children's ability to resist setbacks.
Moreover, with the economic level of people in modern society getting higher and higher, parents are very fond of their children and rarely let them meet the challenges, which leads to their perverse personality and emotional instability, and they can't get up in the face of a little failure.
How to carry out correct frustration education? 1, let children experience failure.
In the face of failure, children always have emotions. Sometimes, when children win or lose a game, they will cry loudly. Some parents will accommodate their children in order to smooth their emotions and prevent them from experiencing the taste of failure, which will only make them unable to improve their resilience.
British parenting psychologists say that the experience of failure is beneficial to children. Only when children often experience failure can they treat failure correctly.
2. Cultivate children's open-minded mind
In the face of setbacks and life disappointments, we should be tolerant with an open mind, so that we can go further and further. If a child is always depressed because of a failure and a setback, how can he develop better?
In fact, children with poor toughness are very small-minded and always care about success or failure. Children with strong ability to resist setbacks are open-minded and can laugh at anything. Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's open-minded mind and don't let them haggle over every ounce.
3. Don't always praise children.
In order to coax their children, many parents always praise their children with words like "You are great, you are really smart", and their children will burst into self-confidence and become unable to accept failure.
When his life is a little hit, he can't stand it. Such children try to create a perfect image for the outside world. When he hears other people's disparaging questions, his inner defense line is easily broken and he will be devastated. Therefore, it is necessary to praise children reasonably and point out their shortcomings in time.
Facing the growth of children, parents are heartbroken. In fact, instead of paying attention to children's academic development, it is better to seize the time to cultivate their frustration ability.
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