The advantages of living with parents after marriage
1, which is convenient for taking care of elderly parents.
Even if you get married, you can't forget the hard work of your parents. Especially now, there are many one-child families. What if I don't live with my parents after marriage and my parents are too old to move? It's sad that I didn't even have a caring person around me when I was sick. This is also our dereliction of duty as children. So it's much more convenient to live with your parents after marriage and take care of them. We will soon find that they have a slight headache and brain fever.
Parents can cook for you.
Old people are diligent and willing to take care of their children. Get up, would you and your wife like to go to the kitchen and get some breakfast by themselves? After work, drag yourself home, do you still want to go to the kitchen to cook dinner? At this time, don't you think mom is good? Breakfast and dinner are ready-made and delicious.
Parents can help you take care of your children.
Now most young couples know that they won't take care of children. Both of them went to work, leaving the children at home. How poor the child is, and it will not be good for the healthy development of the child in the long run. Besides, it is not easy to take care of children. Children eat, drink, pull, disperse and sleep. It's your first time as a parent. You certainly don't know how to feed them. However, living with parents, they have a lot of experience and can help. I'll take care of your daughter-in-law and baby in the second month. I have been watching my children go to primary school, or even longer.
Parents can reconcile the relationship between husband and wife.
There is no quarrel between husband and wife, but the biggest advantage of living with parents is that they can quarrel less or avoid quarreling. They are the best "United Nations peacekeeping forces". Although the team has only two people, its power and efficacy are much stronger than those of the US military. Moreover, the young couple are embarrassed to argue in front of their parents for fear of affecting them.
Parents can help clean the house and do housework.
Some newlyweds don't like to do this. Laugh at each other and push them to each other. It's best not to shirk it too much. After a long time, the couple will definitely quarrel over this trivial matter. You can live with your parents, and the old couple will certainly clean the house in their spare time, which is also a great support for your work.
Disadvantages of living with parents after marriage
1, it is easy to cause conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
The tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a part of cultural tradition and a problem that has been difficult to solve since ancient times. Many people say that as long as the daughter-in-law understands her mother-in-law, it is good to solve her mother-in-law's problems, but everyone understands the truth, but in the face of reality, many people do so. Therefore, in order to completely eliminate this problem, it is better not to live together.
2. There are many problems in intergenerational education.
Filial piety does not have to live together. On the surface, you can take care of your parents, but in fact it may increase their burden. For example, both husband and wife are office workers, so busy every day, they will not take care of their parents, but they will definitely let their parents worry, help with cooking, take care of their children and so on.