If the child is bullied, will you teach him to fight back? What steps might be better? Coupled with the frequent occurrence of "campus violence" in recent years, I will think of this experience. Today's children are all treasures at home, and they are all little emperors. After entering the campus, it is difficult to restrain one's personality immediately, so disputes and fights between children are inevitable. There may be some parents who educate their children to dare to fight back when they are beaten; There are also some parents who educate their children to avoid being beaten in time and ask adults for help. But no matter which way, young mothers feel that they have not solved the difficulties from the root cause, and even let their children change from being beaten to being beaten.

Here are three steps to help children solve school violence properly.

Step 1: I can't bear to let go and ask adults for help.

When a child is beaten, it is necessary to educate the child to seek the help of parents or teachers at the first time. They should not be modest. Blindly forbearance, on the one hand, is likely to make children timid, and on the other hand, it will continue to encourage the arrogance of the hitters.

Step 2: Don't be afraid of the hitter.

When children are bullied, we must educate them not to be afraid of attackers. We may not be able to beat him, but there is nothing to be ashamed of. No one can defeat everyone, but we must not worry about them when dealing with attackers. Because they are wrong, on the one hand, they can improve children's boldness and confidence in dealing with violence, on the other hand, they can protect children's self-esteem.

The third step: follow the trend.

Educate children to be good at observing the attacker and his surroundings after being beaten. If the hitter is on an equal footing with himself and may be weaker than himself, then educate your child to "act together" to fight back and teach him a profound lesson so that he won't dare to find your business again. If the hitter is stronger than himself, or there are many hitters, there is no need to educate children. Because he is likely to suffer a big loss, he should seize the opportunity and leave at once.