Cultivate children's independence. Although the child is mentally immature. Have their own ideas, parents should make good use of this situation. Try to let the children decide something. The tradition in China is that strict father is a loving mother. Parents are autocratic and generally do not consider their children's feelings. Parents in China always want their children to achieve unfinished goals, while parents in foreign countries always help their children realize their dreams. Cultivate children's sense of participation. The child is a member of the family, and he wants to prove himself through his own labor. Parents can't strangle their children's psychology. They should be encouraged to help tidy up the dining table and schoolbags.

Some parents worry that their children can't do well or are afraid of their children's intervention. So he made his own decisions and gradually decided everything by himself, regardless of the children's opinions and suggestions, which eventually led to the loss of independence and the development of dependence. People's psychological quality will play an important role in people's life, and good psychological quality is indispensable for children's success and future career success. Some parents attach great importance to their children's physical health and intellectual development, but ignore the cultivation of their mental health and good psychological quality.

How to cultivate children's good psychological quality, parents can start from the following aspects. Cultivate children's self-confidence. To cultivate children's self-confidence, it is important to liberate children, encourage them to think boldly and act boldly, let them do what they can through hard work, educate them not to act rashly, and let them gradually build up their self-confidence. Cultivate children's sense of success. When children make achievements and progress, parents should give appropriate praise and encouragement in time, and then children will be willing to accept higher requirements.

When a child shows a strong interest in something or an activity, he will explore, discover and learn. Parents should take the time to give help and support. Correct the child's jealousy. Jealousy has a great negative effect, which makes people narrow-minded, unable to tolerate others surpassing themselves, being selfish and not caring about others' feelings. Serious jealousy will affect unity and isolation, which is not conducive to progress and success. Parents should help their children build up confidence and try to catch up with others' healthy psychology. Cultivate children's appetite.