? Afterwards, I heard from my colleagues that I didn't pick up my son Zhou Xiao that day. Her son also had the cheek to smile and said, "The teacher agreed. I don't take a nap at noon, so I can read extra-curricular books. As long as it doesn't affect my classmates, I can not go home with my mother. " The child may not realize that his bad habits will affect the people around him. He is not an independent individual. Colleagues are dumbfounding when they finish. Speaking of her Xiong Haizi, she is really worried, punished, scolded and beaten. But no one sat together to reflect.
Educating a child well requires the efforts of the whole village. Parents and family are the flowers and trees in the village. Educating children well requires the efforts of the whole family.
China people's love is love, and education is education. They are separated and easy to go to extremes. When you love, you can't wait to move the whole world to children, be obedient to them, and even show your love for them in advance and over-satisfaction.
When educating them, they beat and scold at will, euphemistically calling themselves strict with their children. In fact, parents themselves have not studied and improved, and have not found a real way to educate their children. Such "harshness" not only fails to educate excellent children, but also does great harm to children's minds.
Many people say: "I don't lack love for my children. I am very strict in education and have no mercy." Why is the child still disobedient? "
During the summer vacation, I heard from my colleague Lily that his smelly boy didn't flush the toilet after going to the toilet, so he quickly rented a motorcycle to learn piano and simply forgot about not flushing the toilet. There are family members at home to help him do some things, so even if the child makes a mistake, someone will help him correct it.
? Colleague Lili finally realized that there was something wrong with her education. In order to let Zhou Xiao learn a lesson, colleague Lili changed the previous beating and scolding, and punished the child to wash the toilet for a week. At first, the child was stubborn and thought it was a trivial matter not to flush the toilet. In the future, he will flush the toilet every time he uses the toilet. Crying aside, trying to attract the attention of other family members, but this time even the grandmother who loves Zhou Xiao stood by and supported her colleague Lily's decision. I think it is impolite to talk back to parents, so we should put an end to this kind of thing. If you do something wrong, you have to change it. This is also the first time that the elders in the family have supported their colleague Lili to punish their children.
Love and education are inseparable. We should educate our children with love, help them get rid of bad habits and teach them how to love. The purpose of educating children is not to cultivate an obedient child, but to cultivate a child with independent personality, independent living ability and full of love in his heart. "Every parent loves their children, but it is not easy to love them. Just loving them is not enough. Love and teaching are tests of wisdom. Only by passing the test can I say: I love children, not on the surface.
We should teach children to love and do responsible things. This kind of education comes from books and also from parents' words and deeds.
Teach children to be caring, for example, if a classmate is ill and the child visits him. At this time, if parents say, "He is a little ill, and your homework is so busy, don't go to see him, everyone will get sick", that is the negative teaching material of love. We should encourage children to express their concern by writing a card, making a phone call or visiting at home. These are the spread of love.
Teach children what responsibility is. For example, children can be encouraged to help their parents share some housework during weekends and winter and summer vacations. The child is a member of the family, and he also has the responsibility to help his parents share the housework within their power. Only by letting children participate in family work can children have a sense of ownership and parents can slowly liberate their hands. Love for children is not arranged.
Love itself is an education, and love is a disseminator. Love is not a simple word, love is an action, an act. Love is like a flower, where it is planted, it will blossom and bear fruit.