Four steps
The four steps of family education are: spiritual communication-family therapy-environmental change-behavior correction.
Spiritual exchange
The first step is spiritual communication: through systematic study and communication, every student can learn how to love himself without hurting himself, and every parent can master the method of parent-child communication.
Family therapy
The second step is family therapy: Professor Tao personally gives one-on-one counseling to untie the knot for children and ease family conflicts. Guide children to establish a good outlook on life, values and world outlook, and cultivate positive thoughts and personality.
environmental change
The third step is environmental change: work closely with parents to change the environment in which children grow up and give them a sense of crisis, responsibility and mission.
behavior modification
The fourth step is correction: gradually develop children's good living habits, work habits and study habits, stay away from bad hobbies and find themselves again.
Five noes principle
The five principles of family education are: don't fight-don't scold-don't care-don't worry-don't be afraid. Respect the child's personality, do not beat and scold, and ease the contradiction between parents and children. Don't indulge yourself or "substitute growth", let children learn to manage themselves. Improve parents' "anxiety" and "fear" mentality, let children worry about themselves, and parents learn to relax themselves and take the initiative in education.