1. Parents regard their children as the apple of their eye and feel that their thoughts and actions should not be restricted. Moreover, these parents believe that elite education is to let children make their own decisions, do what they want to do, and implement free-range education. Actually, it's not. Parents should play the role of guiding their children instead of letting them make their own decisions.

2. Parents' education methods, whether connivance or control, will have an impact on the formation of children's character in the future. Most parents can't tell when to help their children and when to let them do it themselves. Sometimes doing too much for children will only make children lose the opportunity to exercise themselves. Controlling a child will make him lose his mind and gradually numb, while conniving at the child will only make the child do things according to his own preferences, regardless of other people's feelings, and he can't control his emotions well.