In life, don't ask others to help you do what you can, such as your own clothes, your own dishes after eating, and the things you need in life. Don't wait for your parents to help you clean up, do what you can and cultivate your children's independent living habits.

The same is true in learning. Take the initiative to do homework after school every day, clear up the difficulties that you can't, preview tomorrow's lessons after school every day, learn the habit of arranging your own time, and don't wait for others to dominate me, which will be more tired.

2. Educate children in manners, manners and upbringing.

Courtesy and respect for others have been the traditional virtues of China for thousands of years. Confucius and Mencius have continued to this day, and educating children should start from an early age.

When interacting with people, don't yell, don't point your finger at others, don't yell in public, don't swear at others, know how to be modest, give your seat to the old man, give toys to the children, give delicious food, let the elders sit first, and don't make any noise when eating.

3. Attitude towards problems and people and things.

Educating children to take people and things around them seriously and understand the world with a calm mind, not everything can meet their own wishes, even if they fail, they should go through it in the process of growing up, which is a kind of tempering and exercise for children, and always maintain a good attitude to face and actively deal with the things they encounter.

4. Cultivate children's good psychological quality.

In the process of children's growth, there will inevitably be many difficulties. In order for children to tide over the difficulties actively, in addition to the guidance and education of parents, children should also have good psychological quality, be able to accept blows and challenges, be able to correctly look at everything they encounter, have their own ideas, ideas and ways of looking at problems, avoid stage fright when things happen, and try their best to let children deal with things that they are capable of handling, even if they are wrong, it is also an accumulation of experience.

Don't panic when things happen, do things step by step with your thoughts, slowly erase your emotions and make yourself stable and rational.

5. Let children have a sense of cooperation with others.

Whether at home, at work or in society, cooperation with others is the theme of modern society. No matter what you do, you need to talk about cooperation with others in order to get greater benefits. Whether you are competitive in life depends on whether you are willing to cooperate with others. Children should cultivate a sense of cooperation with others from an early age. Sharing storybooks, snacks and games together is the basis of cooperation.

Communicate well with classmates at school. When others are in trouble or need help, they should have the consciousness of helping. Good affinity is the basis of happy cooperation with others.