The door to children's educational thoughts and intelligence needs to be opened through the key. It is necessary to cultivate the baby's consciousness from an early age. They all say, "I will become you when I grow up", and we should solve problems with our children and become better people together. Educational ideas shared with children.
1 1 On children's educational thoughts and their lagging response to psychological problems.
"When we were young, nobody cared. Are we all right now? " This is the most heard word, but when the child really encounters a problem, it may be too late. The same is true of children's psychological problems. If you don't do the work in front, it will be difficult to reverse it in the back. Therefore, parents should learn some psychological knowledge during their children's growth, and the earlier they start psychological education, the better.
Children's problems are created by adults.
When children have problems, the first thing parents should consider is what problems they can adjust. Many educational problems seem to be in children, but in fact they are rooted in adults. Parents are children's first teachers, so family education should pay attention to "common progress", learn to grow up with children and correct mistakes together.
3. Psychological support is more important than material support.
There is an experiment in psychology called "sensory deprivation test", which says that the subject is imprisoned in a room and then all his material needs are met, but he is forbidden to communicate and denied the right to read. As a result, no one survived for a week and said that he was going crazy after coming out. This shows that when people are deprived of "feeling", serious mental illness will occur. Therefore, the most important thing in psychological education is to give children feelings and feelings, not just to enrich their material life.
4. Humanistic education is more important than intellectual education.
Psychological education and human nature education are interlinked. When studying criminal cases, we often hear people comment that some criminals have no humanity. In fact, most of these people have no family life. In recent years, murders in colleges and universities have emerged one after another. Criminals have high IQ, but lack humanity. This shows that some parents only pay attention to their children's educational achievements, but not to the cultivation of human nature.
5. Personality determines the fate of children.
This is an accepted view. Cultivating a child's sense of responsibility and tough personality will help him to go to society and become a disciplined person in the future. These personality qualities are the cornerstone of survival, of being a man and of winning opportunities.
6. The premise of protecting children is respect.
Many parents treat their children with the attitude that "everything they do is for your own good" and "I love you and don't discuss it", but not discussing it is actually disrespectful. "Respect" is not only politeness, but that children should have some necessary rights when they grow up.
Educational thoughts for children 2 pay attention to emotional expression, love and respect coexist, don't bring home troubles at work, and don't impose bad emotions on children. Family members should be tolerant, do not create contradictions, do not make noise, and be harmonious and beautiful.
Create a happy family environment for children. Play games with children, walk with children, actively create opportunities to make children happy, pay attention to children's safety education every day, pay attention to words and deeds, and do what you say.
Parents should strive to cultivate their children's reading habits, enrich their knowledge, enhance their wisdom and broaden their horizons through reading. My approach is to build a study for children, buy books, subscribe to newspapers and magazines, take children to bookstores, cultivate children's interest in reading and carry out parent-child reading together.
Read and study with children, create a good learning atmosphere, don't force children to go to interest classes that he is not interested in, let children realize that learning is his own business, don't scold him or beat him because of his poor grades, and don't compare his grades with other children's.
In short, parents should set an example, create a good learning environment for their children, study with their children, set a good example for their children, and show more patience and love to their children.