2. Observe communication. Is to observe the way children communicate with themselves. Many times, parents must go beyond their own roles and observe the problem of children's rebellion from the perspective of a third party. And treat children from different angles and make limited accommodation.

3. Analysis and explanation. Parents should carefully analyze the specific reasons for children's rebellious psychology and give full explanations, so that children's rebellious psychology will gradually disappear.

4. keep trying. Parents should always change the way they discipline their children. When children are young, they usually just talk and listen. After entering middle school, you should try two-way communication and listen to your children's suggestions. Once a method is found to be unworkable, it is necessary to change the method at any time and keep experimenting until an effective method is found.