This kind of education of parents will only make children more rebellious and will not solve the problem at all. When some children are scolded by their parents, they will have a serious rebellious mentality and confront their parents. Parents mean well, but things will get worse because they can't control their negative emotions. For a long time, children have accumulated a lot of bad emotions. If it is not released correctly, some extreme behaviors are likely to occur.
Parents learn to control their emotions. When educating children, you must control your emotions. Some parents make such mistakes, can't control their emotions, and scold their children, which will only make the problem worse. If you want to cultivate excellent children and make them grow up healthily, you must be able to control your temper, avoid yelling at them and learn to educate them in a low voice. This kind of education can make them realize their mistakes positively and optimistically.
Set rules. If you want your children to obey, then the most important thing is to establish a rule so that children can live within the rules and regulations we have established. For example, tell them not to look around when doing their homework and not to watch TV when eating. Only when rules are established can children make mistakes less easily. And once the rules are set, don't always change them, otherwise the children will definitely think that we are moody. Appropriate punishment is also necessary in the process of educating children, because only in this way can children be deeply aware of the consequences.
The book "Positive Discipline" says that there are wrong ideas and behavioral purposes behind children's bad behaviors, but children don't realize that they are hidden "passwords". Only by recognizing the wrong purpose behind these bad behaviors can adults effectively help children change bad behaviors. When a child makes a mistake, parents should not only see the child's superficial bad behavior, but beat and scold the child. Only by discovering the hidden purpose of children's behavior problems can we help them correct them. The process of children's growth is a process of trial and error. Without perfect parents, of course, there is no perfect child. Everyone makes mistakes. When making mistakes, parents patiently help their children to correct them and let them grow up better.