Freud believed that the development of personality is mainly the development of biological instinct. According to the different manifestations of biological instinct, it can be divided into five periods. Oral period is the first year of life, and biological instinct is concentrated in the mouth. The anal period is the second or third year of life, and biological instinct is concentrated in the anus, so I am particularly interested in defecation. The stage of sexual organs occurs in the fourth to seventh year of life.
The incubation period begins at about seven or eight years old and ends before puberty. At this time, children are not interested in sex and heterosexuality, and their interests turn to the outside, focusing on developing all kinds of required rules, knowledge and skills, which has exceeded the critical period of self. Identify with same-sex parents. In the bisexual period, boys are about 13 years old and girls are about 12 years old. The gender difference begins to be significant, and they have the consciousness of marriage and family.
Matters needing attention in five stages of children's education:
Freud believed that the variation of libido may occur in all stages of personality development, mainly including fixation and retrogression. At a certain stage, libido is over-satisfied or lacking. If Libido encounters setbacks in its development, it will return to the early stage from the later stage, and fixation and retrogression will have an adverse impact on the development of personality.
There is no doubt that the five stages of personality development are important to personality development, among which the first three stages are particularly important. Freud believed that it was these three stages that laid the foundation for the adult personality model. Therefore, as parents, we must attach importance to the education of children in these three stages, attach importance to the early education of children, and avoid the performance of children's fixed love.