1. Outlook on life: refers to the understanding and recognition of life goals, values, meanings and pursuits. Spouses in marriage should have similar life visions and goals for the future and work together in the same direction.
2. Values: refer to the views and principles of morality, ethics, responsibility and interpersonal relationship. Husband and wife should be consistent in basic values, such as respect, honesty, trust, responsibility and family values.
3. Concept: refers to the cognition and view of family role, educational concept and gender role. Spouses in marriage should have a consistent concept of family expectations and role commitment, including their views on children's education, housework division and career development.
The way for husband and wife to get along:
1, communication and understanding: establish good communication methods, listen to each other's thoughts and feelings, and try to understand each other's perspective. Avoid offensive words and support and encourage each other on the basis of respect and understanding.
2. Common goals: Make sure that you and your partner have a consistent understanding and consensus on family, career and future goals. Work together to achieve these goals and regard each other's efforts and achievements as the common achievements of the family.
3. Respect personal space: Everyone needs a certain personal space and independence. Husband and wife should respect each other's personal needs and hobbies and give each other some freedom and space.
4. Build trust and loyalty: Trust is the cornerstone of the relationship between husband and wife. Establish a good trust relationship and be loyal and honest to each other.
5. Solve contradictions: There will inevitably be differences and contradictions between husband and wife, but the key lies in how to solve these problems. Find a win-win solution through rational communication and mutual compromise, instead of quarreling or intensifying problems.
6. Share housework and responsibilities: Husband and wife should share the responsibilities of family and life, including housework and child support. Sharing responsibility can reduce the pressure on both sides and enhance their sense of balance and happiness.
7. Create common happiness and memories: Husband and wife should create beautiful memories and common happiness together. Spend a good time together, participate in common hobbies and activities, and enhance intimacy and sense of belonging.