Mr. Cai Yuanpei said: Family is the first school in life. ?
Family education is a child's initial school. This kind of education is accompanied by a person's life and has a profound influence on children's character, temper and disposition.
Parents' education determines children's character and behavior, and then affects their experiences.
It can be said that a child's life is closely related to the family's educational methods. Now many parents begin to attach importance to their children's family education, but do parents know the importance of family education to their children? Why should parents pay attention to family education for their children?
The Importance of Family Education for Children
First, the family environment affects children's growth.
Teacher Ye, a writer, has done research on the relationship between environment and people, and reached the conclusion: A person's growth is not only a person's nature, but also inseparable from his environment and acquired cultivation. The influence of his environment plays the most important role in cultivating and educating people. People get development and pioneering education in family, school, society and working environment, which makes a good environment play an irreplaceable role, especially the influence of family on children, which has a vital educational role. ?
The first environment for children's education is often the family, and it is the first primary group with face-to-face communication. The ways children feel about communication, cooperation, understanding, support and care in the family are blaming or tolerating, understanding or denying, supporting or attacking, how to deal with differences, how to communicate and interact, etc. It will affect children's future interaction with others.
Second, parents set an example for their children's growth.
American thinker Emerson said:
What kind of person a child will eventually become depends mainly on the quality of love, companionship and example demonstration he gets from the first educator. ?
The power of example is infinite, which is especially important for children. Parents are children's first teachers and lifelong teachers. Parents' words and deeds influence their children all the time. In order to cultivate excellent next generation, parents must set an example.
Family is the cell of society and the first environment for children to live. What is the truth of children? The first teacher? It's your parents Teaching children to be human is the first condition for their growth.
Everything parents say and do is a role model for their children. In fact, the small details on weekdays are not trivial. Good education comes from the edification of life, and good family education is based on family. There is no natural Xiong Haizi, only the wrong upbringing and irresponsible parents.
Third, parents' emphasis on education affects their children's growth.
Paying attention to education is a matter of degree, from the so-called? Rational? Arrive? Irrational? . Rationality is an appropriate calculation of costs and benefits. Your investment in children's education (all economic, human and resource investments for children's education) and its return (direct economic feedback from children; Indirect: children gain achievement and social status.
Nowadays, most parents are busy making money, providing a good living and learning environment for their children, and will ignore the importance of their children's education. Some parents may simply think that letting their children go to the best schools and have the most advanced learning tools is an investment in education.
In fact, parents' attention to education is not only a simple material investment, but also a psychological concern and care for children.
Fourth, family education will have a far-reaching impact on future generations.
The ancients used to say? V and ze? Modern people often say that wealth is less than three generations. Why?
Family education will have a far-reaching impact on family descendants. No matter in China or abroad, there are some families with outstanding traditions and talented people, and of course there are notorious families.
But there are also many families with excellent traditions in China, such as the Zeng family, the Liang family and the Qian family. We can understand the cultural traditions of these families by reading Liang Qichao's letters and Zeng Guofan's family instructions. The most important reason why these families can flourish and have talented people is that they have endless excellent family cultural traditions.
We often say that the Excellence of parents determines the Excellence of children. The excellent parents mentioned here do not mean how high their parents' academic qualifications are, or how famous universities they graduated from, or how prominent their social status is, but that excellent parents should have excellent characters, such as honesty, kindness, tolerance, love of learning, initiative and optimism.
Soong Ching Ling once said,? In the final analysis, children's personality and talents are deeply influenced by their families, parents and especially their mothers. ? When children grow up, society is the environment to exercise them, and school education will also play a vital role in their lives. But always in a person, we can see what his family education is like, which is the decisive influence of family education on a child's life.