In the face of junior high school students in the rebellious period, parents should properly educate and guide their children, establish a friendly relationship with them, let them share her happiness and unhappiness with you, and let adults know their children and what they are thinking.

You can't complain and blame your child all day, let alone hit him, which will hurt his self-esteem. Encourage, praise and praise children. Even if there is a problem, we should communicate well and never beat or scold the children, otherwise it will only be counterproductive.

So, how to discipline a rebellious junior high school student?

First, observe communication. Just watch how your children communicate with you. Many times, parents must break away from their own roles and observe the problem of children's rebellion from the perspective of a third party. And treat children from different angles and make limited adaptation.

Second, listen to the child's point of view and don't confront him. Many times, we say that children are the most important. Then don't be too angry at this time, listen to the children calmly and then guide them correctly. Don't use a tough or reproachful tone, but use an inquiring tone, such as do you think this matter will be handled well? Can you tell me the reason why you said (did) it?

Third, encourage and praise the child immediately when he is doing well or making progress. Good children are praised, don't be stingy with your praise. Many parents are afraid of their children's pride, saying that they should make progress and blame their children immediately if they have problems. In fact, every child has his own bright spot. Parents need to find and show your affirmation, build up their children's self-confidence and help communicate with them.

Fourth, solicit opinions. When disciplining children, it is sometimes necessary to ask for other people's opinions and open your own mind. It is best to strengthen communication with the child's teacher to understand the child's usual performance in school.

Fifth, keep trying. Parents should always change the way they discipline their children. When children are young, usually only parents talk and children listen. After graduating from high school, try two-way communication and listen to your children's suggestions. Once a method is found to be unworkable, it is necessary to change the method at any time and keep experimenting until an effective method is found.