1, try to be friends with children, instead of bossing them around with parents' airs. The child has reached the age of 13, which shows that he has a distinct personality and his own understanding of the world. If in the rebellious period of children, adults still use traditional education methods and adhere to the educational concept of "filial sons are born under sticks", which will lead to more serious rebellious psychology of children.

2. Giving children more space and conditions to express their opinions can effectively eliminate children's rebellious emotions in the rebellious period. When encountering problems, you can fill in the blanks for your children instead of multiple-choice questions. For a simple example, when you ask your child what he wants to eat in the morning, you can ask, honey, what do you want to eat tomorrow morning? Mom will make it for you. Parents should learn to shut up and stop nagging. Children who enter the rebellious period are prone to conflict with their families. During this period, as parents, we should learn to shut up, let go and let our children play freely. When she does something in the wrong direction, she gives her own opinions, not forcing, but just giving her advice.