There are some bad situations in society: instead of teaching well, teachers go to cram schools, and then let their students go to cram schools after class to let them learn what they really teach. This social atmosphere is very unhealthy. Therefore, in order to put an end to this phenomenon, the Education Bureau does not allow school teachers to open cram schools outside. If a teacher opens a cram school privately, he will be accused by the Ministry of Education. But private education is different.

Many parents will want to find a tutor for their children, but is this tutor model really harmless? The answer may be beyond your imagination.

It happened in Changchun, Jilin. A mother felt that her children could not keep up with others in their studies and was very worried. I want my children to have a good tutor before the final exam, so that I can get good grades in the final exam, so I invited Mr. Wang from my school to be a tutor at home, but I never thought that this beautiful 29-year-old teacher would put my family in crisis!

First, the personal beauty instructor derailed the child's father! The child complained and told the truth.

Originally, children's grades did improve, and parents were also very happy. The children's scores in the in-class exams have also improved significantly, and they get along well with Mr. Wang. However, as the counseling time became longer and longer, Ms. Lin gradually realized that something was wrong.

Later, Mr. Wang went home for tutoring more and more times, and even began to come uninvited. The child felt a little strange. After observation, he secretly ran to tell his mother. He thinks there is something strange between dad and Mr. Wang. They are always whispering and have a feeling of "ambiguity". Ms. Li was very surprised to hear the child say this. The child even used the word "ambiguous". Ms. Lin was shocked and angry.

The child's words caught the mother's attention, and Ms. Lin began to investigate secretly. After all, Mr. Wang is only 29 years old, young and beautiful, and Ms. Lin herself noticed that there was something wrong with the atmosphere. Through continuous efforts, Ms. Lin really found evidence of her husband's infidelity. That's true. Teacher Wang keeps in touch with her husband while tutoring children, and goes out on dates from time to time.

After mastering the key evidence, Ms. Lin seized the opportunity and rushed to the hotel to catch the rapist. When she pushed the door and saw Mr. Wang and her husband lying in bed disheveled, Ms. Lin was so angry that she decided to divorce her husband and reported the teacher to the Education Bureau.

The beginning of this matter is actually because Ms. Li wants her children to get better grades and invites the teacher to come home. For the sake of children's study, it turned out to be such a tragedy, and Ms. Lin wanted to cry.

Second, what did this tutor bring to the children?

The starting point for children to get better grades is right, but no one expected that a tutor could make a perfect family become fragmented. Netizens also felt very angry after hearing this. Such a teacher is not worthy to be a teacher at all, and has no morality. How dare he make up lessons for his children? How can a 29-year-old girl have such a nasty mind and do such a thing!

Let such a teacher stay with the child for a long time, and the child's three views will gradually be distorted. How can such a teacher make parents trust their children to teach? Teachers should educate themselves before becoming teachers. Teachers themselves must first become a person with a correct outlook on life, and then they deserve to be a teacher. Secondly, it is their teaching ability. Schools and parents must not put the cart before the horse.

Third, who is responsible for the parents who cheat in private education? Some netizens may blame teachers from the commanding heights of morality, because as such a post, it is their duty to educate people and educate themselves; However, many netizens believe that Ms. Lin should not go to the Education Bureau to report female teachers and take care of her husband.

When it comes to ordinary infidelity, maybe the society accuses the woman more, but in fact, flies don't bite seamless eggs. Speaking of the story of Changchun, neither the school nor the parents announced the details. Who seduced who first is still inconclusive.

How did this 29-year-old female teacher get to work? Any other misconduct? We don't know whether the school is responsible for improper employment.

Fourth, one who cheated lost his career and the other lost his family.

The result of the incident was that the female teacher was suspended, and Ms. Lin also decisively divorced her husband. After the incident, many netizens were teasing: the father loves mountains, and not only donated money for his children's studies, but also himself!

Some netizens joked that the father and the teacher are together, so the tuition fee is free. Father's love has declined like a mountain. In order to make children get by on the next level, their families have been destroyed, so that children can not get a complete family and lose their father's love forever.

For children, this is an indelible shadow. His father cheated his teacher, which led to the breakdown of the whole family. In the future, children may even face ridicule from those classmates when they go to school. The biggest victims are children.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) conclusion

For these educators, first of all, we should standardize our own behavior, and parents should also pay attention to sounding the alarm. When choosing a tutor, you must keep your eyes open and don't choose the wrong person to bring bad education to your children. Three views are contagious. What do you think of this matter?