First, lead by example and teach by example.
It has always been the expectation of parents to expect their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed. For children, the best family education is not endless classes and endless schools, but words and deeds. Many parents do not do well in this respect and are often strict with themselves. Education is a long-term thing. When parents educate their children, they need to be themselves first. If parents can't do things themselves, how can they ask their children to do them?
Parents should lead by example, not just talk about the truth, but start with the details of life. In the process of growing up, children absorb the knowledge from the outside world quickly, while the knowledge from the outside world is messy. In order to prevent children from being adversely affected, parents need to set an example to educate their children. It is great to take the lead for children, and it deserves every child's heartfelt respect. Lead by example is to educate children with actions. Children are very sensitive, and parents' every move is a demonstration of children, which plays a subtle role at any time. If parents like reading books, let their children read books, and children will readily accept their parents' opinions.
Second, respect and understand children and build a harmonious parent-child relationship.
Respect for others means respect for yourself. Parents respect their children, and children will respect their parents, and they have a heart of hearts. Respect for children is not expressed in words, but mainly in thoughts, so words and actions will show an atmosphere of respect. Parents respect their children's opinions and self-esteem and don't hurt their faces. Family atmosphere has a great influence on children's growth. Parents respect each other, live in harmony and love their elders. When children grow up in a friendly family, they will form a gentle and kind character and have very good interpersonal relationships.
Understanding a person is actually caring about one person, and you will get the care of another person. As the saying goes, long live understanding. As parents, we can observe children's behaviors and expressions everywhere and care about their psychological problems. The child didn't do well in the exam and didn't meet the parents' expectations. As parents, they can understand that their children have tried their best and encourage them to continue their efforts in the future. Parents should be more patient, communicate more, accompany more and care more about their children. You will find that children are not as stubborn as we thought. If you really know him, he can actually be excellent.
Third, be positive and encourage each other.
Everyone likes people who make progress. Children also have vanity and hope that their parents will make progress and achieve something. Aggressive parents are the hope of children, because ambition is the foundation of parents' success, and hard-working parents are the pride of children, because every child doesn't like parents who don't work hard.
In their daily life with their children, parents should be good at expressing their love for their children and often say love to them, so that their children will be positive, sound in personality and full of love for the world.
Fourth, it is the greatest career to accompany a good child wholeheartedly.
Parents need to give their children more companionship, which can't be replaced by anyone. Parents can take their children to bookstores to cultivate their reading habits, or they can take their children to parks to increase their knowledge of nature.
Parents have the responsibility to pay attention to every moment of their children's growth, instead of avoiding it on the grounds of busy work. Which is more important, educating children or making money? Some parents said: if you don't work, you don't earn money, what can you raise your children with? What to give children a better life? When the child grows up, he will understand me. The time to earn money cannot be delayed, nor can the education of children be delayed. Children's work and education need parents to balance themselves. You know, parents are the attachment objects of children and the most important people on the road to their growth. In the first few years of children's growth, we must put everything at hand and dedicate our time, energy and love to children.
Parents are the best teachers for children and the people who influence their life. Parents' words and deeds are the best classes in their lives.