At 9: 04 on Monday night, Eiko's mother sent a message: "I want to trouble Miss Li to sleep at night. Ask Eiko more. I've been nervous these two days. Please pay more attention to the teacher. Thank you. "

How can you be unhappy? Did something happen?

With this question, I'll ask Eiko. She said, "Nothing, just getting along with classmates." Looking at Eiko's slightly relaxed appearance, I slowly replied to her: "OK, I know. I'll ask her to call you later. "

Parents are not at ease, the most direct way is to let her hear the child's voice and understand the child's situation at school. I didn't find anything wrong with eiko either.

However, the next day, Eiko's mother was anxious to see me again. However, our free time happened to be unlucky, and finally we had a talk on the phone.

It turned out to be a matter of getting along with the planetesimals. Actually, since I took over, the interaction between the two children has been intermittent. Sometimes they get close and care about each other, and sometimes they ignore each other.

On the phone, Eiko's mother told me about her anxiety. Now Xing Zi not only doesn't talk to Eiko, but also deliberately isolates Eiko from other students in the dormitory. Everyone will say some sarcastic words in front of Eiko, which makes Eiko feel very uncomfortable, especially when deliberately laughing at Eiko's personal image. So Eiko's mother made a request: I want to change her bedroom.

It is ok to change dormitories. This is a very simple thing. There are four empty beds in the dormitory next door. I can totally transfer eiko. But the question is, is this appropriate? The two bedrooms are connected together, and everyone shares the sink, bathroom and shower room. Even in another dormitory, I looked down and didn't see it. Besides, it will only make others more isolated from Eiko.

Hearing this, Eiko's mother hesitated. After all, this is just her idea, and Eiko may not want to do it. Then let's take another look.

In the next few days, I consciously observed my classmates who had more contact with Eiko, and they got along well. Eiko didn't show anything unusual either.

Until one day, during the basketball winding, I found Xing Zi and Eiko talking and laughing as before. I blurted out, "I noticed that you two haven't spoken for several days." You girls are always like this. It stinks for three days. Be good in the future and don't do this again. " They all smiled shyly.

I quietly told Eiko without a trace: "Did I do well? In fact, your mother has told me. "

Eiko, the child, is very sincere. When she was sleeping at night, she finally went upstairs and whispered to me, "Teacher, you touched me today. I didn't even know my mother told you about it. Actually, I didn't tell her what I wanted, I was just venting. I thought I could handle it, so I didn't tell you. I appreciate you, but I just can't say it. Thank you, teacher. "

"Thank you for saying so. Your mother asked me to change your bedroom. "

"Teacher, fortunately, you didn't change it for me. Otherwise, I don't even know what to tell them. It's still a dormitory anyway. Thanks again. "

I am happy in born this way! A child who knows how to be grateful will definitely make a difference in the future. Although Eiko's academic performance is not very good and her figure is not good, I don't think a person needs to study well, but his character must be good.

Later, when I gave feedback to Eiko's mother about her recent performance, I mentioned my own educational method of silently educating people. Eiko's mother repeatedly said, "Thank you so much, Miss Li! Your method is really unique! For children, this is the best solution, no one is hurt, or you have a way. Neither criticized others face to face, but also maintained Eiko's face. After thinking about it, I really can't change the dormitory, otherwise Eiko will be even more sad. Thank you sincerely! "

Suhomlinski once said: "Education needs to touch the hearts of young people with care, reflection and care. Educators must have a beautiful sense of beauty, love beauty, create beauty and maintain beauty. " Education should start with respect for life, make human nature good, broaden people's minds and arouse their own good roots.

"Sneak into the night with the wind and moisten things silently." Although education has no trace, it has amazing power; Moisten things silently, but you can "listen to thunder in silence."