Ah Hu believes that the concept of economy and consumption must be confirmed in the early stage of blind date. Because it is difficult to change the concept of consumption, everyone has the habit of spending money by himself, so it is best to find someone who shares or is willing to agree with his own concept from the beginning. For example, Ah Fu likes to buy some useless gadgets at home, and her boyfriend never interferes, although she doesn't understand. I don't complain that the bookshelf is full of small toys, and she will buy me something nice when she sees it.

Asking about each other's economic strength and consumption view may be a sensitive topic in blind date, which needs to be handled carefully to avoid causing discomfort or embarrassment to each other, and try to choose the right time and way to ask. At the same time, we should also communicate and express well so that the other party can share relevant information more naturally.

The easiest way is to ask the other person's occupation and education, which can get a preliminary understanding of the other person's economic situation. Occupation and education are often related to income. Usually these are the winning numbers of the blind date bureau. It should be noted that some people are vague in their work. If you can ask clearly, you'd better ask clearly

By asking about each other's lifestyle and hobbies, we can indirectly understand each other's consumption concepts. For example, if you ask the other person's favorite leisure activities and travel habits, you can infer his consumption attitude. However, if you ask this straightforward question, the other person may deliberately hide his true thoughts. You can make a detour to say the opposite point of view and see if the other party agrees. For example, the attitude towards travel can reflect many problems. If you just say that you like traveling and ask the other person if he likes it, you may not get the real answer. You can say how much you spent on your last trip, and then see the other person's reaction.

In addition, we can also discuss each other's plans for the future, including career, finance, family and so on. The other party's planning may involve economic considerations, thus exposing the other party's economic strength and financial management concept. I also use my own views and experiences as an introduction to actively share my financial management ideas. Then observe each other's reaction to this topic, or invite each other to share their financial experience and opinions. It is best not to ask the specific address of the other person's home, because if you ask, you will say your own community. Don't let others know the specific address during the blind date stage, especially girls.

In fact, a person can expose a lot of things in front of you. In the process of blind date, you can get some clues about their economic strength and consumption concept by observing each other's lifestyle, dressing and eating habits. These clues may not be completely accurate and can only be used as a reference, but if all the clues point in one direction, it is probably the right direction.