Refuse a long speech
Have parents ever had such an experience? When your mouth is thirsty and you talk a lot of sermons, a child goes in one ear and out the other, just like water comes out of one ear. Children are children after all, and their world is very simple. They just agree with what they have experienced.
Refuse to encourage the growth of seedlings.
Some parents always like to look at their children as adults. For example, if their children fail in the exam, their parents will blame them and say, "You can't do such a simple math problem. You are so stupid! " The consequence of parents doing this is that children will really feel that they are more stupid than other students and have less and less confidence in learning.
Cultivate empathy
The so-called "long live understanding", that is to say, if both sides can put themselves in their shoes, many unnecessary troubles will be solved. Children without empathy can easily live in their own world, and gradually become selfish and do not know how to think of others.
Teach them to fish.
It is better to teach a mermaid how to fish directly, which also applies to education. In the face of children's questions, some parents feel very annoyed and will tell their children the answer directly. This kind of education is wrong. Parents should guide their children to think first, then try to understand, and finally achieve the goal of making them understand.