"Look at the other children."

This sentence is something that almost all children hate to hear.

Parents who like to say "look after other people's children" are typical parents who are more aggressive in education.

No matter how good the child is, it is not as good as "other people's children" in the eyes of parents. The pain caused by this sentence is "endless" and affects the child's life.

Mom and dad, please remember: you have to raise the children you have, not the children you expect.

"Knife mouth" hurts the most

"Knife mouth" parents obviously care about their children, and their mouths do say the opposite:

When we fall, our parents will help us up anxiously, but they will mutter, "Why are you so careless and don't look at the road when you walk?"

When asked about the results, it was clear that the exam was very good this time, and it blurted out that "the child was too careless to do well in the exam."

Although parents affirm their children from the bottom of their hearts, all the information the children receive comes from their parents.

Your "knife mouth" is the "knife heart" in the eyes of children.

"I am afraid of your pride."

Parents who often say this, under the banner of "I am afraid of your pride", constantly deny and suppress their children, that is, label them as "you can't do it". However, once a child is labeled, he will become the person labeled.

Children will live in inferiority and anxiety for a long time under constant pressure.

Such parents suppress not the pride of their children, but the motivation of their children to make progress.