When parents are disciplining their children, if they watch too many theoretical things or videos of experts, it is easy for them to fall into a dilemma, lose their opinions and principles, and finally raise their children completely according to the book.

Discipline children, when it is time to fight, we must not be soft. If it is useful to reason with every child, if every child can control his behavior and consciousness, then there is no need for parents to discipline him at all.

Let's talk about it first Children are in the growth stage and have not reached the level of complete self-control, so they are called "minors" and should be managed. The characteristics of a minor, like a tiger in a circus, are wild inside. Before entering the cage to perform, I don't know how many times he was whipped by the animal trainer. If you don't whip the tiger and give him the strength of a tiger, he won't be able to perform the program to the audience according to the instructions of the animal trainer.

What's more, the child is a blank sheet of paper and a memory card, and he records everything you write on it. If one day you find something wrong and want to change it, it will be very difficult. Just like you write on white paper with a pencil, you find that you have written wrong. Although you can erase it and rewrite it, the traces left are indelible. Just like you store data in a memory card, although unnecessary files can be deleted at will, the traces left behind cannot be erased.

We should strictly manage children and educate them carefully. I agree with the old saying that strict father is a loving mother. The father is responsible for looking after the children and the mother is responsible for educating them. Father is often the head of the family and the pillar of the family. The father's prestige at home must be established, so that children can feel that there is someone he is afraid, afraid and respected at home, so that children can't run amok outside. A mother's high emotional intelligence can teach her children the truth of being a man, how to take care of themselves and how to deal with interpersonal relationships. Parents do their jobs, and children are not much different. This is a traditional division of family education that has been passed down for thousands of years, and it is still irreplaceable.