Comments on the educational film "Parent-child Growing Together" Part I: Family education plays a vital role in children's growth. Therefore, from the moment the child was born, I knew my educational responsibility, and I should take good care of and cultivate the child. In educating my son, I pay special attention to the cultivation of "self-control, habits, health and self-confidence".
In the process of children's growth, children's psychological plasticity is great. Under the guidance of parents, pay attention to control their words and deeds, cultivate towards the goal of social morality, and develop a good education.
"Attitude determines fate", no matter what you do, you should have a correct attitude and natural habits, so that children can develop good life and study habits from an early age, which has an important impact on their future. From the moment when children have self-awareness, I attach importance to cultivating children's good living habits and standardizing their manners, movements, sitting and lying. Cultivate children's self-care ability as much as possible and let them do their own things. So before going to school, the son can put on clothes, wash his face and feet, arrange toys, fold quilts and wash socks. I also consciously educate children to learn to work, love work, and cherish the fruits of labor. Assign housework, so that children can bear as much as possible, such as washing dishes, taking chopsticks, serving meals, sweeping the floor, and pouring tea and water for guests. In learning, we should pay attention to cultivate children's good study habits, educate children to have a sense of time, learn to allocate time, finish the things of the day on the same day, finish homework on time seriously, and urge children to check regularly. Children have difficulties in learning and their grades are not satisfactory. I never yell and scold, but help children find reasons and encourage them to study actively.
A healthy body is the material basis of study and indispensable for a person's life, so I insist on accompanying my son to exercise every day. Once you have time, you must take your children close to nature and play with them. It seems that you have a wonderful childhood again.
We know that only by constantly improving children's ability to distinguish right from wrong can children learn to do things and learn to be human.
Children inevitably make mistakes, and the key is how to treat them after making mistakes. After the child makes a mistake, I will patiently help him analyze what is wrong and help him know what is right and do better. I think children's mistakes are a good educational opportunity and an opportunity to raise awareness. I believe that children can correct their mistakes. I always use "Dad believes that you will do well in the future and will definitely do better" to motivate children, and I will try my best to be tolerant, caring, understanding and encouraging. After children go to school, they are exposed to more people and things than before, and children will have their own comments and opinions. At this time, I always listen patiently, be the best listener for children and observe their thoughts. Every time a child finishes speaking, he always asks, "What would you do if it were you?" Children will think hard and speak their minds. I have been making suggestions at an appropriate time. Over time, children's ability to distinguish right from wrong has been improved day by day, and they have put it into action and gradually learned to be a man and do things.
"Self-confidence is the cornerstone of success" is a solid step for children to go to society. Only when children have self-confidence can they withstand setbacks, overcome difficulties and succeed. In order to cultivate children's self-confidence, my approach is: 1. I believe that children can do well and give them more encouragement. "You can do it!" "You can do it well!" "You can certainly do better!" This is not only an incentive for children, but also a good way to cultivate their self-confidence. 2. Admit the differences, children's strengths and weaknesses coexist, and advantages and disadvantages coexist. Don't compare your child's shortcomings with other children's advantages, which can only backfire and make children feel inferior. I think as long as children improve on the original basis, they should be affirmed and encouraged. Help children cultivate the courage to overcome difficulties, cultivate self-confidence to overcome difficulties, and let children establish the belief that I can do it.
In a word, educating children is an important and complicated issue, and there are many influencing factors. In my opinion, as parents, we should be not only parents of children, but also mentors. They can lead by example, which is the way children live.
First, we should pay attention to our words and deeds. A person's ideological and moral character is first formed in the family, so the process of parents educating their children should be the process of parents and children learning and growing together. We should establish the concept of lifelong learning, "lifelong learning as a parent" and be a person who keeps learning. Usually, we should pay attention to what we say. The survey shows that the height of parents in their children's minds is directly proportional to their education. Therefore, as a child's first teacher, we must lead by example and be a person with complete personality and good conduct.
Second, we should pay attention to the cultivation of study habits. In this study, the professor repeatedly emphasized the importance of forming study habits, and forming a good habit is more important than learning itself. Therefore, in the initial stage of children, I should pay more attention to and follow the professor's methods to the letter: ① I should make a study plan and timetable with my daughter, so that children can arrange their time reasonably and study as planned. Ask the children to do their homework first when they go home, and finish it seriously and efficiently before they can do other things. ③ Develop the habit of listening carefully and asking questions actively in class. Good habits first come from listening attentively. Usually, we should pay more attention to children and develop the habit of finding problems in our study. Develop the habit of reading, read parent-child books every day, read more classic books, and let children know that books are sweet, books are fragrant, and learning is bitter and happy. As the professor said, "Don't teach people to fish, but teach them to fish". Be a daughter's guide, not a crutch.
Third, we should pay attention to daily communication and establish a good parent-child relationship. Usually, we should chat with children more, pay attention to the details of children's lives and conduct random education. The effect of "didactic" conversation is often average, and children should be influenced subtly by telling stories and talking about opinions. In children's learning, we should pay more attention to the usual learning situation, dilute the scores, vary from person to person, never compare with others, discuss more, communicate more, and be friends and partners of children.
Fourth, we should pay attention to children's physical and mental health. While doing a good job in learning, don't ignore the child's physical and mental condition: Physically, the child is in a long physical period, so be sure to let the child eat breakfast every day and have comprehensive nutrition; Psychological direction, let children go to school happily every day, let her like school, teachers and classmates, actively participate in class collective activities and integrate into the team. As the old saying goes, "everything is learned when the world is clear, and people are warm and cold." Learning itself is a big concept. Just in all aspects of children's lives, it is very important to pay attention to children's dribs and drabs all the time and make them healthy physically and mentally.
Every child's growth is devoted to his parents' efforts, and every parent wants his children to have a good future. I sincerely thank the school for its meticulous organization and teachers' educational guidance. I hope the school can continue to provide opportunities for parent education. I believe that with the joint efforts of family and school, our children will grow up healthily and happily!
The second reflection on the educational film "Parent-child Growing Together": I am xxx's mother, and I recently watched the TV class "Parent-child Growing Together" in Weifang, which benefited a lot. In my impression, children should be rebellious, selfish, ungrateful and only happy. Unexpectedly, although they are in a honeypot, they can deeply understand their parents' hardships and express their love for their mothers so delicately. I think being a mother is very hard, but I am also very happy and proud.
However, as educators say, although maternal love is transparent, without impurities and without asking for anything in return, it is difficult to be a mother. Especially it is more difficult to be a mother in children's minds. As for education, I think most parents have failed. Because of busy life, busy life, busy communication, busy family and other reasons, few parents can squat down to listen to their children's voices. Most parents do not respond positively to their children's shortcomings, but treat them simply and rudely. Just like the first mother and son on the stage, they played the epitome of countless families.
After listening to the expert's report. I think hard, how should I position myself? What role should we play in children's growth? How to treat children's problems correctly? Every child is an individual and has his own advantages and disadvantages. All problems will not be as simple as 1+ 1 = 2. No one is born a parent. I think it's best to learn from the experience of professors.
1, let children learn to stand on their own feet and cultivate their own ability to think and solve problems when they encounter problems.
2. Cultivate children to develop good habits. Let life be orderly, do things from beginning to end, and cultivate children's determination, perseverance and perseverance. This is crucial for a child's life.
3. Parents' love should be to the point. I believe it is difficult for most parents to do this. In the face of children's unreasonable demands, it is difficult for us to deal with them calmly, either swearing or compromising blindly. This is extremely unfavorable to children's growth, and self-control ability has a far-reaching impact on children's long-term development. You didn't create the world alone. Let children learn patience, disappointment, waiting and a correct world outlook.
4. Look at children objectively, don't blindly compare with others, and don't decide the fate of children by grades. Talent is all-sided, and achievement is only one aspect, which does not explain whether a child is excellent or not. Children's good study does not mean that education is successful. Education is more reflected in the world outlook, values and orientation, and more importantly, it is to cultivate children to develop healthy and sound personalities. Realize the all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor.
We still have a long way to go to educate the next generation. Lead by example. For the children's bright tomorrow. Let's start from ourselves and set a correct example for our children. Believe in children, let go of our hands, let them splash ink in their own world and describe their wonderful lives!
Reflections on the educational film "Parent-child Growing Together" III: By watching the TV class "Parent-child Growing Together", I think family is the primary environment for children to grow up. Is the first teacher. Children's good conduct is inseparable from the active cooperation and education of parents. So I think the family education of children is a key step. By studying the course "Holding Hands with Two Generations of Parents" seriously, I have made great gains and changes in children's education. Let me briefly introduce my own experience.
Parents must educate their children scientifically and communicate well. Parent-child communication is an important link to promote children's healthy growth. Parents and children must be honest with each other. Give each other love and care naturally. After all the communication, parents and children can understand each other, learn to reflect, try to change their shortcomings and develop their strengths.
2. Cultivate children's persistent habits. I remember a few days ago, the child said that there were many XXX ancient poems in the class. As soon as the topic is mentioned, she is catchy. Seeing the child's envious eyes, I asked him about you. Didn't you recite 300 Tang poems at a time? What's the matter now ... My children just don't insist, and this responsibility is also part of an adult. I used to take him with me when I was a child, but sometimes I didn't insist when I was busy with work. From this perspective, it is really a terrible thing for children to do things halfway sometimes.
Parents are children's first teachers, and it is most important to set an example. Parents should set an example. Just like a mirror, what parents ask their children to do must be done by themselves first. He gets up early when you get up early in the morning, and he is not lazy when you are diligent. You honor your parents, and he will honor you. Teaching a child to be a man first is the foundation, which can benefit him for life.
4. Always encourage your child to ensure his self-confidence. For children's growth, our parents' encouragement, appreciation, respect and understanding are important factors for their healthy growth. It is necessary to be good at discovering the changes and progress of children bit by bit, and there is no need to yell at mistakes or even start work, which will cause unnecessary consequences and make children rebellious. It is necessary to immediately point out mistakes, guide children to deal with them correctly, and cultivate their lively, cheerful and enterprising character with their own words and deeds, and don't be stingy with praise. It allows them to
The growth of children is also a learning process for our parents. As the saying goes, "It's never too old to learn."
There is a lot of knowledge and things in the world that we can never learn. We just need to know what we should do and learn, and try our best! Children's education and training are closely linked with their parents, so I hope to apply what I have learned in the future, and I hope to grow up with my children and benefit together.