That is to say: whether your children go to school or not, or whether you have children, your happiness and children's happiness have nothing to do with the school, and whether your children are happy or not is still in your own hands, not the school or society.
It can be seen that even a two-person family without children is not necessarily happy, and a family with children is not necessarily unhappy, both of which have nothing to do with school. It is reasonable to say that social instability will affect your family happiness. However, if the society is unstable, the school will not be quiet.
Life begins with family. People actually live in four places in their life. The first place is in your mother's womb. You feel the outside world through your mother's body. The second most important place in life is family. When you leave your mother's womb and come into this world, you enter the family. Parents are with their children from the moment they are born. Children's language learning, mental attitude and behavior habits are all influenced and infected by their parents, which has a great influence.
Besides, the biggest difference between our parents in China and those in the West is that we can't accept that our children may be ordinary people in the future, but for most families, this is the reality. Looking back, we have trained so many top students, competition champions and gold medal winners after more than 30 years of running around, but we have not seen how many masters in scientific fields we expect to produce from them, at least not yet.
Family culture is a fortress of traditional culture and a haven of cultural conflict. In personality shaping, the family exerts a subtle and deep-rooted influence through its blood relationship. A sound personality cannot lack the internalization and edification of family culture and emotion. Parents should constantly learn from themselves, update their educational ideas and concepts, and improve their educational level and ability. At the same time, family education should be more closely combined with school education, so that children can better develop good behavior habits and improve all aspects of quality. Only in this way can our children get really healthy growth and development.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. Children's words and deeds, smiles, and treating people are all learned from their parents. Children in rough families are rough, children in gentle families are gentle, and children in reasonable families are reasonable. Parents' educational background, parents' working environment, parents' economic income, and parents' treatment of people all determine their own quality and bring happiness to children, and there are also such factors.
But school is the place where children develop the day after tomorrow. Children in different families have different personalities. In this collective melting pot, they need mutual recognition, mutual understanding, mutual integration and mutual promotion. There are not the same two leaves in the world, the same class, so many children can't be the same individual situation. School education has a great influence on children's life, and entering society as an adult will inevitably affect children's happiness.