2. Look at children's adolescence rationally, talk less and do more, lead by example, and tolerate children with wisdom and love: rebellion eager to dominate their own lives, unwilling to be bound and controlled, and willing to be concerned! At this time, even if the child scolds his parents, don't think about how to beat and scold him, but teach the child what is right and wrong with the correct concept.

3. To understand children better, we must first change our educational concept, treat children equally and respect each other. Give children more care. Children may be to attract the attention and love of adults, so pay more attention to them. Then, establish a good parent-child relationship with children.

4, parents should learn to let go slowly, when the child enters adolescence, it is necessary to use more actions to influence, instead of always preaching strongly! Repeated nagging over and over again will only backfire and get worse! Instead of being tired of managing children every day, it is better to give them some space for themselves, so it is easier to communicate!

5. Communicate with your child's class teacher and ask for help: How can you make your child change and realize his mistakes?

6. Let go of work and daily chores and take the children out to enjoy a pleasant trip. Children in the rebellious period of youth are sensitive and feel that the whole world owes them the same. Children in this period need the understanding of their parents. Therefore, we can put aside the prejudice between adults and children, travel like him and his friends, take him to do what he wants, chat like a bosom friend, abandon the old-fashioned reprimand and teaching, and let him relax and open his heart during the trip.

7. Parents should reflect on whether they have made mistakes. If parents talk too extreme, exaggerate, or turn over old scores instead of talking about the matter, then parents must treat their children equally if they want to communicate with them, instead of always being above them. According to the actual situation of children, the advice given to children should be practical.

8. Rebuild family relationships. One is that the relationship between husband and wife is more important than the parent-child relationship; The other is that a sense of boundary and appropriate restrictions are the bottom line of a good relationship; The third is the role return. What do you mean? The role of the father, the role of the mother and the role of the child used to be vague. From now on, it's all your own place, so that children can see your changes.