The secret of growing up

As educators say, "children without secrets will not grow up." I believe you all have a little secret of growing up. You may be happy or sad. Below, let me share with you my little secret of growing up!

Although it happened a few weeks ago, I still remember it vividly. Whenever I think about it, I can't help lowering my head. On Saturday of that week, I got up at 1 1 the next morning because I played too crazy the night before. Although my mother has called me several times, I still got into bed and went back to sleep, which upset my original plan to do my homework in the morning, so I thought, "Isn't there another afternoon?" Then finish all your homework in the afternoon! "So I didn't do my homework. Playing and playing, I suddenly remembered a very important thing: I have to go to extracurricular classes in the afternoon. At this time, I was as anxious as an ant on hot bricks. Suddenly, the teacher of the extracurricular class called and asked, "Yu Wenhui, why don't you go to class? "Because the teacher called me, I lied and said," Teacher, I am sick and can't go. "The teacher said kindly," Then you should go to the hospital and pay more attention to the seasonal changes. " I listened, stupefied, my heart churned up and down like boiling water, and I blushed as if I were being pulled. My face burns when I think of it. I especially like the teacher's kind and caring voice, which makes my guilty heart restless for a long time. ...

This is the secret in my heart. I have told you without reservation. I don't know what you think. Would you please tell me? !

More and more secret works

In the process of growing up, each of us will hide some little secrets in our hearts, including laughter and tears; There is honor and shame; There are joys and grievances.

Speaking of secrets, I'll think of it. When I think about it, I am full of bitterness, but the thing is-

On that day, the weather was stuffy and hot, and I felt suffocated when I went out. People stay at home and don't even want to go out. I slept comfortably at home, so uncomfortable.

A crisp "bang" interrupted my dream. I rubbed my sleepy eyes and stretched myself. I was about to open my mouth and ask who disturbed my sleep when a small figure flashed into the room. Looking intently, it turned out to be my cousin! Seeing her like that, I know what happened. I gloated at her, and she looked at me piteously, like an innocent puppy.

At this time, my mother came in angrily, and my heart was full of joy: haha, my cousin is finished! I don't know. My mother scolded me. I was just about to defend myself when my eyes met my cousin's poor eyes. My heart softened and I swallowed these words raw. "Sorry, I was wrong." I said to my mother with my head down. "I'm sorry it's useful, why should I call the police!" God, mom is fashionable, too! I thought to myself. But now is not the time to care about this. "I'll punish you for buying salt today, and you can pay for it yourself." Hearing this, I suddenly want to faint. The outside of the house is simply a big stove. If you go, you can't roast the whole pig, and you have to pay for it yourself. Does that make sense?

As soon as my mother left, I turned my attention to my cousin. This is the culprit. I took the blame for her and had to be a slave. I won't do it! I threw the money to my cousin, who left like an innocent man without even looking at it. I have no choice but to go by myself.

I bought salt and went straight to the refrigerator. Fortunately, there is also a popsicle. I was just about to take it when a small hand reached over and took it away. I flew into a rage and grabbed it. Tear it open and eat it. There was a loud noise. My mother rushed over and snatched the popsicle from my hand and gave it to her. Her cousin again.

I went back to my room angrily and slammed the door. I am full of grievances and want to talk. My nose is sour, and I fought back my tears. "Don't cry, don't cry." I keep reminding myself in my mind.

I swallowed the whole thing, but I felt wronged when I thought about it.

The secret ingredient of growing up

Zhang Xiao, a "one-winged angel", only feels very lonely. By chance, he left his mother and became good friends with cheerful Zhu Zitong ... The friendship between the two boys contains many "secrets" of growth, including puppy love and online game addiction. From these secrets, Zhang Xiaowei learned the experience and lessons of life, and all these became the secrets of his own growth!

In fact, the growth process is a painting, and the secret is a scene, a thing and an indispensable thing in the painting. Remember the steps of our growth and accompany us all our lives. Parents may think so: what a secret! Is there anything you can't share with your parents? If adults think so, it's all wet! A secret is a secret, a treasure hidden in everyone's heart, and I don't want anyone to find it. Moreover, not all words can be shared with relatives, hee hee ... keep a little privacy! Perhaps, in doing so, parents will not understand, and may secretly expose their children's "secrets", which is wrong! Can't everyone have their own little secret? Let this secret take root in everyone's heart!

In the eyes of parents, we will always be children. We are always doing nothing, but adults don't know that we are studying every day. Can't we even relax? When I was in the third grade, my parents were very strict. I have to do my homework as soon as school is over. After writing, I have to preview tomorrow's class. I can't even watch TV when the exam is coming. You can't even move extracurricular books. At that time, the course was very simple, so I didn't think much. My parents did it for my own good. But what about now? Those topics are so difficult that parents don't know how to encourage their children. How do they know how difficult it is? Especially when the final exam is coming, the teacher becomes active. Let the children make a pile of papers, and tens of thousands of tons of pen water are wasted. I seem to be tired of this life. I have no free time except studying all day. I feel so tired! Coupled with the sudden increase in homework and review, I seem to be under pressure to study. But the government keeps saying that it will reduce our burden, and there is still so much homework.

When we were young, you often taught us to respect people, but do you know what "respect" means? Probably can't write two words.

Everyone has secrets, some can be said, but some secrets can only be kept in their own hearts, understand?

I have grown up, and the growing pains will always accompany me. Some of you can help me, but some people can't popsicle me. When I am disappointed and sad, you can't or have no time to listen to me. I can only talk to my diary. I dare not get into trouble when I have a problem with you. I need to talk to the diary. When I make a mistake, I will cover my ears without listening to your nagging and review myself in my diary.

"The most effective way is not to try every means to get' intelligence' through detectives, but to establish a close relationship of trust, which is very important for family education." Scientists have analyzed that education is fundamentally a relationship, and a good education depends on the relationship. If a harmonious relationship can be maintained between educators and educatees, it is better than all education. "Imagine that if the child firmly believes that' mother respects and trusts me', this is more useful than all' detective means'." On the contrary, once a child finds out that his privacy has been peeped, it will inevitably affect the educational effect of parents on their children for a long time.

Children who have no secrets will never grow up. When I was young, I kept learning there like a learning machine, without any bumps or anything. They will be much worse than those children who study poorly and have many secrets, and they will never catch up with those children!

We children also have our own little secrets!

I discovered the secret of growing up.

That day, full of hope, I planted a raw melon seed, poured enough water and waited for it to sprout. One day, two days, three days ... the melon seeds completely buried in the soil didn't respond at all. I want to pull them out and have a look, but I'm afraid I will accidentally hurt the seedlings. What should I do?

Yes, it suddenly occurred to me that it grows slowly because it is pinching off the seed shell (seed)! I took out a melon seed, carefully peeled off the seed coat, planted the snow-white melon seed meat in the soil and watered it. Sure enough, the next day, Plant 2 grew 8 cm long roots.

On the third day, Plant No.2 grew a 3-4 cm long stem with cotyledons on it.

On the fifth day, Plant No.2 has grown to about 10 cm! And 1 just popped up a small piece of melon seed shell! Another day passed, and the melon peel separated and fell. At first glance, this guy is a little different from number two:

Number, color, length, thickness and similarity of seeds

No.65438 +0 is completely different in green short thickness.

Number two is yellow, white and long.

After that, 1 grew slowly, with an average spacing of 6 leaves and a dark green color; No.2 grows faster and faster, longer and longer, and all eight leaves are together, and the color is light green. However, No.2 seems a little unusual: the stem is too thin, too long, too tender in color, covered with fine hairs, and the whole rhizome is bent down, appearing fragile and soft, and soon wilted.

While 1 continues to thrive, the mystery is getting bigger and bigger: 1 Why is it so slow? Why is it short and thick? Why is No.2 dead and it continues to grow ... These questions have been bothering me and embarrassing me until that day. ...

"bang!" I accidentally broke the flowerpot of 1, and the stem of 1 was also broken! To my surprise, from the rolling soil, I saw that the root of 1 almost reached the bottom of the flowerpot!

This is for excavation and germination! It is a seed coat, two small seed coats, forcing 1 to take root deeply; This is the seed coat. At the moment of its growth, it inhibited the growth rate and made the seed develop more mature, thus changing the fate of the seed's life! That's why number two died! Just like a butterfly pupating, it takes a painful struggle to fly to the blue sky, and life needs a painful test to be free and happy!

Yes, life is like a run. There is only one difference between the winner and the loser: the winner grits his teeth and keeps running, and then sees the scenery of the finish line and the podium; The loser sees the beautiful scenery first, and then runs when the winner stands on the podium.

It's like learning: you need a solid foundation (basic skills) to succeed! Opportunism (like peeling the seed coat of No.2, I don't have to endure the pain of shelling) can only end in a fiasco, just like No.2.

Of course, if it weren't for my whim, No.2 wouldn't be like this. It's my fault, and I repeated the story of "pulling out seedlings to encourage others"!

Life needs struggle. This is the way of nature. Every life has rules. What I did to No.2 was like setting up a terrible roadblock on its life runway, which made this life wasted. Just like a runner, he could have won the first prize, but he fouled at the last minute and wasted it, which made him (her) regret it. Life is the same, often a small detail will ruin his or her life, forever!

I ruined everything!

Alas!

The next day, I planted a complete seed. ...

The secret feeling of growing up composition

Every time you watch an episode, you will be deeply moved. I was moved by Miss Li and all the teachers in the class. As Professor Feng said: As a kindergarten teacher, the first task is to know and understand children. Before, I only felt that I knew children better and respected them more, but after watching this film, I was really ashamed. Judging from the teacher's behavior in the film, I think they really regard the child as a wise, thoughtful and reasonable person and an equal dialogue object. For example, chenchen is waiting for Nande. At first, I wondered why Miss Li didn't guide chenchen to associate with other friends. But later I found out that he was following a principle: respect children, give them full freedom, and put them in the absolute subject position of education. Teachers only play the role of observing and assisting children's self-development. For another example, when Chen Chen was waiting for Nande on a snowy day, perhaps from the perspective of taking care of the children, I would carry her into the classroom. Teacher Li showed concern and love, such as taking off her scarf and putting it around her children, but she also showed understanding and respect and accompanied her.

Every class has children like Chi Yiyang in the film. At this time, I wish I could go to another class or have the idea of transferring to another kindergarten. Patience, language and methods have benefited me a lot. While protecting Chi Yiyang, she also protected his parents. She didn't tell her parents about her child's various behaviors in kindergarten, so that the child who was invincible in the class and had no friends became helpful and knew how to share, and the child was willing to play with him. When parents complained that Chi Yiyang often bullied his peers and even wanted the kindergarten to transfer him away, Teacher Li affirmed that Chi Yiyang's male chauvinism "set an example for many boys", which moved me very much. Under pressure, Miss Li left him and gave her parents a clear explanation, which she did. This is really a far cry from what I thought before! When Chi Yiyang grows up, he will be grateful to meet such a good teacher, and Chi Yiyang's parents will be more moved.

Miss Li's handling of the Sikun incident shocked me even more. I don't think he will be allowed to do what this little guy has done, whether at home or in kindergarten, but Mr. Li has done it. Imagine how many children's desire to explore was stifled by my loud yelling at work. At the same time, I am ashamed to admire Mr. Li.

What a teacher gives a child is not a word "love" that can be interpreted. It needs the teacher's educational wit and timely help. Respecting children and communicating with them equally is the ultimate goal of today's education.

I learned too much in the movie, and I also had too many feelings and regrets. Suddenly, I can't find the right words to describe it. There is a kind of spiritual shock and a kind of emotional sublimation.

It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. Our parents and teachers will say that they love children. But what kind of love is just right? This is indeed a topic worthy of our discussion, and it is also a topic that is often debated in modern educational theory. And this movie let us see the bright spot. Love must have rights, and love must have rules.

I sincerely hope that all our children will live in Ba Xueyuan, grow up in the free development of equal relationship with teachers and return to nature. At that time, life was education. Just like the meaningful sentence on the school bus, "Children are feet and education is shoes".