Especially for us women, having children is a kind of "talent" and a kind of responsibility, with a heavy mission.
After having children, we should not only take care of their food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also care about their education, especially the "nine-year compulsory education" implemented by the state, in order to let the motherland have a bright future.
For many of us, having children is a responsibility, and it is also a responsibility for ourselves and our children's future.
After having a child, all parents' energy will be put on the child, from food, clothing, housing and transportation as a child to the child's study, parents should help the child handle it properly.
Especially in children's study, parents should grasp their children's academic achievements from childhood and prevent them from being compared and left behind in their academic achievements.
However, parents have placed great hopes on their children, but the children are not necessarily "disappointing", and even the most basic learning can't completely go to the end.
When Linlin heard these words from her daughter and herself, she was very surprised, but it was hard to accept after being surprised. My son is only the second day of junior high school this year, and he is still very young, not even an adult.
Moreover, Linlin is also in a small county, and the children's academic performance is not very good. If a child doesn't study, he is likely to become a punk.
I've been beaten and scolded, and I've reasoned with my children countless times, but my son still doesn't want to go to school. Although Linlin said, you have to get along in the third grade, but my son still goes his own way.
Later, Linlin could only find his son's cousin, who was six years older than his own children and had already worked. Linlin considered letting his cousin take care of his son for two days, so that his son could experience the difficulty of making money.
Later, after going out for a week, my son came back and finally promised to go back to class, which also made Linlin very happy.
In fact, children give up learning halfway, which is a situation that many parents have faced or even will face. If children are tired of learning and have no motivation to learn, they will think of giving up.
When many parents encounter this situation, the first year is "can't let their children not study", but there is no practical way.
Parents can only tell their children in a dry way: it's no use not going to school, you can't do anything now, you can only take it at home without going to school, and so on. However, the parents have worn out their mouths and the children are still unmoved.
Simply put, when children are young, parents can make a travel plan and take them to a strange place every year to show them the outside world.
However, this knowledge is not a simple tour. It is best for parents to learn local knowledge in advance and then give their children popular science knowledge, instead of the kind of travel that "gets on the bus to sleep and gets off the bus to pee".
When children are exposed to more things and cultures, their thoughts are certainly not limited to primary schools and small families, and their attention is not limited to mobile phones, computers or games.
Everyone should be familiar with Huang Duoduo, the eldest daughter of Huang Lei and Sun Li. When she was a child, she participated in daily progress with her father, achieved excellent results and was liked by many people.
But Huang Lei and Sun Li are very capable of "tossing". Now many of them are only 10 years old, but they have more knowledge than many of us adults. They have been to more than 40 cities and participated in hundreds of drama performances. Their behavior and knowledge are better than many adults, thanks to her parents who can "toss".
When a child has more knowledge, he will be more confident. When other children falter and can't answer questions, the child is likely to answer them, and his confidence will increase a lot.
Therefore, parents can take their children around after they remember, so that they can have enough knowledge and vision and stand out among their peers.
I can answer your questions about children's psychology, education and personality. I hope my suggestions can help everyone and make every baby grow up healthily.