Understand and help
Children make mistakes and need parents' understanding and help. We should respect the child's self-esteem and guide him with love instead of anger in order to really help him correct his mistakes.
Examine one's own educational methods
When children make mistakes, parents should first examine their own educational methods. Is it out of love or anger? The former can make children feel warm, while the latter will only make them more rebellious. To change children, start with changing yourself.
Guide rather than severely punish.
Children who make mistakes need guidance, not severe punishment. Although their behavior is immoral, it may also stem from unclear moral norms. As parents, we should give our children more understanding and help instead of blaming them blindly.
Change yourself, change your children.
When we guide them in a more appropriate way, children may bring surprising changes. To change children, start with changing yourself. When we guide our children with love instead of anger, they will feel warm and accept our guidance more easily.