However, when the children go to school, parents find that their children have more things after school. One of the biggest headaches for parents is to help their children with their homework.
I once heard a friend complain that my blood pressure would soar every time I helped my child with his homework. Teaching children to do their homework is like going to war. Before entering the room, I said to myself three times: this is my own!
Jojo has a son named Bowen, who just entered primary school this year. Before Bowen went to kindergarten, he liked to put off his homework, because the homework in kindergarten was not complicated and there were not many subjects, so Bowen didn't have much pressure.
But after Bowen went to primary school, this method was not suitable. Other children may finish the same homework in an hour and a half, and it will take two to three hours to finish it in a blog post.
If you have a weekend off, you will never do your homework on Saturday, and you will often start writing on Sunday afternoon. Although Jojo has said his son many times, Bowen has always been "brave to admit his mistake and never repent"!
Two days ago, Jojo came home from school after receiving Bowen. Jojo wanted to cure her son's bad habit, and directly let Bowen go in and do his homework, emphasizing that he could only eat and watch TV after finishing his homework. Then he sat aside and supervised the children's homework. Seeing her mother's resolute attitude, Jojo had to dawdle and take out the roll paper to be written today from her schoolbag.
After a while, Jojo thought it was time to finish cooking, so she told Bowen to do his homework in the house and not to slip away. He will come back later to check and then go to the kitchen.
After Jojo finished eating, she was going to see how her blog post homework was going. Before opening the door, Jojo estimated that his son should be playing at this time, but when he opened the door, he found that the blog was actually doing his homework. What makes Jojo laugh is that his cat actually acts as a "supervisor" and is squatting on the table to supervise his son's homework!
Jojo couldn't help sighing when she saw this picture: This is just me! Because the cat looked at his son with a sad expression, which was exactly the same as his expression when he read the blog post and did his homework. It seems that blog posts and homework make the cat at home "fuck his heart"!
Jojo thought this scene was really funny, so she took a photo with her mobile phone and posted it online. After reading it, the netizen teased: "Ha ha ha, how hard the child has done his homework, which can make the cats at home worry like this!" "This cat's expression is simply amazing. Is it exquisite? " "Show the cat! I probably think this silly child is too stupid, this question will not! "
Netizens teased, but the fact that children do homework really worried many parents. Anyway, parents still go their own way.
1. Children just like to procrastinate.
Children's family environment and background are different, so they will form different personalities. Some children are impatient and want to finish everything first. Some children are slow and want to solve everything slowly, which often worries people around them.
Even in the face of the same thing, children will have different ways to deal with it because of their different personalities. Some children just like to put off their homework until the deadline, so such children will not deliberately put off their homework so late, but because it is their habit. Parents might as well try to make a timetable for their children so that they can understand the deadline of homework.
The child was distracted by other things.
Children's nature is actually like to play, and when they are young, they often have no good self-control and are easily attracted by other things.
Some parents often play mobile phones when supervising their children's homework, but this is completely affecting their children's homework. If parents make a little noise, children will be attracted, curious about what their parents are doing, and not in the mood to do homework.
3. Children don't understand the knowledge points they encounter when doing homework.
Some children are really slow in doing homework, not because they deliberately want to delay, but because they encounter difficulties on the way to writing homework and don't understand the knowledge points in class. What do they write after class?
In class, the teacher has to take care of more than 20 children in the class, so most students will talk about the next one after understanding it. Some children are shy, even if they don't understand, they are embarrassed to ask the teacher. Finally, they encounter the same knowledge points in their homework, but they still won't, which leads to the jam and slow speed of homework.
It's a long way to educate children to be successful. Parents must be patient when they help their children with their homework. Don't scold children just because they are slow in doing their homework. Be good at communicating with children and find out where their "heart knot" is. Only in this way can we get along with an effective solution.