2, ask the source of the matter, patiently listen to the child, when the child makes a mistake, some parents will directly beat and scold, which will not only make the child feel wronged, but also encourage the child's rebellious psychology. This method is not advisable. In this case, children should be allowed to tell the story themselves and give them enough time to speak slowly. At the same time, parents should also think about the right or wrong of this matter from the child's point of view and position.
3. Provide children with logical results. If children don't eat dinner, they shouldn't be allowed to eat their favorite snacks before going to bed. If the child doesn't clean up after playing with toys, then don't let the child play with toys for her in the next day. It is necessary to link the child's misconduct with the consequences, so that the child can know that his previous actions will cause unpleasant consequences and can effectively help the child solve the problem.
4. Teach them not to make the same mistake again. The best way to prevent children from making the same mistake again is to let them think about a punishment by themselves and what to do if they make similar mistakes again. The way children come up with it must be a severe punishment within their cognitive range. They will certainly remember their promises. In this way, parents can also teach their children that it is difficult to catch up with a word.
It is a better choice for children to pause time, which can teach them to be quiet. However, in order to effectively pause time, parents and children should actively spend time in peacetime. When a child makes a mistake and is suspended from school, she will feel even worse about not being noticed, which will also remind her to behave better.
6, selective neglect, sometimes selective neglect, will be more effective than hitting children. Selective neglect does not mean that if a child does something dangerous or inappropriate. For example, when complaining or making unreasonable demands, parents can pretend not to hear, and then pay attention to their children when her behavior improves, so that over time, children will know how polite behavior can better meet their needs.
7. Depriving children of their privileges is more effective in the short term, and depriving children of their privileges can last longer. For example, don't let children play games, don't buy her toys and so on. Punish her with what she likes, clarify the time of punishment with the child, and remind him not to make the same mistake again.