Super-education costs a lot of time, energy and money. What's the effect? In fact, it's very bad, most of them are jokes, and most of them are just average in competition with children of the same age.
Many children's mothers are keen on this for three deep-seated reasons.
(1) The child's mother, just to show her existence and value, is different and has no practical significance.
② It is also a kind of class anxiety and inferiority complex. I hope my child can jump into the class through study and become a particularly excellent child to be envied by others.
In fact, most of them are impossible. If a child wants to succeed, it is all contributed by comprehensive conditions. Family background has a great influence on a child.
A lot of advanced education, which consumes a lot of time and money, actually only makes oneself more tired, makes children more painful and numb, and has little effect, just to comfort themselves and relieve their mental anxiety.
I have a strong vanity and comparison, just to save face. I don't know what my children really need. What is your child's specialty? I just feel comfortable spending money, and I can also show it off, just to save face.
Advanced educational institutions have satisfied the parents' good face mentality, especially the children's mothers, who will be particularly happy and excited and feel that they have done a lot for their children and will be grateful to themselves in the future.
In fact, most children don't like this kind of advanced education at all, just acting with their parents.
Many families who are obsessed with advanced education, after their children enter the real classroom, their acceptance ability, learning ability and learning efficiency are particularly poor, and they are only at the middle level at most, without the effect of advanced organization propaganda.