It's to find yourself. If a girl reads a lot of books and gets a postgraduate degree or above, then her knowledge will be wide and her thinking will be deep. She will understand that women, both men and women, are independent and free individuals, and his/her ultimate goal is to pursue the realization of self-worth, not to satisfy a certain opposite sex. This concept of focusing on understanding the better opposite sex is the embodiment of the lack of self-existence, and it is also the embodiment of not thinking about life and its meaning at all. A person who has read many books and received higher education will never have such an idea anyway. The sentence "a woman can only meet a better man if she becomes good enough" is simply understood as the subject of "a woman becomes good just to meet a good man". If she doesn't attract people's attention because she deliberately distorts her original intention, then her self-awareness is very low. This sentence means "equal resources" and "evenly matched" in the communication between men and women. It is not only used in the communication between men and women, but also in all kinds of communication. No one wants to give and be taken from others unconditionally and blindly except their closest relatives. Therefore, if you are strong, you will not be avoided by powerful people, but will be appreciated and cherished by powerful people. The subject of feeling regards women as accessories of men and thinks that the value of women should be reflected by the Excellence of men who make friends with them. As we all know, a woman holds up half the sky, her delicate mind can see through men, her gentleness like water can melt men ... she has her place.