Mother thinks that the child has entered junior high school and can't be lazy as before. We should not only arrange our life better, but also arrange our time step by step, handle the relationship between study and entertainment, give priority to important study, and finish the task and rest. However, as usual, children have no sense of time, have to catch up with everything, and are not active in learning. As a result, mothers became more and more anxious and yelled at their children more and more times. The child is busy doing this according to the parents' requirements, on the one hand, he feels very wronged. Watching children grow up, parents' standards have quietly improved, but children still do it in their own way.
But what is nature in this world? Children continue their previous behavior habits, but they don't know that their age has reached a certain level, and the world's requirements for them have subconsciously and quietly changed.
Some reasons parents should explain clearly.
Education can't avoid communication. Some truths still need to be made clear to children before they can understand. Parents don't talk, standards are quietly raised, and children will naturally be confused. It is also difficult for parents to achieve the expected results.
There are some rules and habits that parents need to adapt with their children.
All educational experts are emphasizing habits. How difficult is it to get familiar with this matter? Can inexperienced children and eager parents complete the cultivation of good habits?
To form good habits, children first need parents with good habits and mentality.
After all, children are still young and need the help and guidance of their parents, but don't be condescending and picky. The difference between two mud clouds is naturally the difference under the sky.
The older a child is, the more active he is. In fact, if it is not fully affirmed and denied, the effect will be the best.
However, affirming children's efforts and cooperation does not mean that they do not sum up problems and improve their promotion. The key is to find out the child's shortcomings and help the child calmly accept and admit them on the basis of fully and fairly affirming his efforts. John F. Kennedy, learning) then discuss the improvement methods, implement them seriously together, and parents help supervise them. Don't children understand when they are older? Did you make a hullabaloo about? Try these methods. Maybe the willow is sad.
Thank you and affirmation are the most urgent needs in everyone's heart, and so are your children. If the child is disobedient and unlovable, it may be that parents hate their children's ignorance and are too harsh on weekdays, and parents themselves may always be unwilling to face criticism. Children are so young that they instinctively like good words and don't like harsh suggestions. Therefore, it is inevitable for children to accept criticism incorrectly.
In fact, children attach great importance to their parents' attitude. If they care too much, the reaction will be too intense. Look carefully, the child is not actually to meet your needs, but on the way you can meet, is he too lonely, too difficult and too powerless?
Does he need a tutor? Or do parents need to spend more time with him What kind of role can walk into the child's heart and accompany the immature heart well?
In fact, all children attach great importance to the opinions of those who have been brought up since childhood. Avoid dangerous harbor, because the love and tolerance of lover is the only source of strength in this world.
Don't say that you are all for the good of your children. With kindness, anxiety and simple and rude effect, what you say will really be hard for anyone to accept. I especially hurt the corner of my eye. I hope a compliment or two will make us happy. Overnight, I fell in love with this child!