1, role models and model parents can tell some heroic stories according to their children's reality, and take the image and good behavior of heroic models as examples for their children to learn. At the same time, it is necessary to provide more examples for children who are optimistic, cheerful, lively, proactive, conscientious, enthusiastic, caring and helping others, including setting an example for children with their own above behaviors.

2. Explain and reason. Explain every code of conduct to the child, let him know how to do it, and reason with the child's understanding level, so that he can understand. Parents should be patient. When children are too excited, they often don't listen. They should wait for him to calm down before speaking in a friendly tone.

3. The cultivation of practice and practice habits depends on repeated practice. Therefore, when children are required to reach a certain code of conduct, they must practice and consolidate repeatedly, and often praise them to promote their conscious consolidation.

Bad educational methods in family education;

1, the requirements for children are perfect. In some families, no matter how excellent the children are, they can't meet their parents' expectations. Parents will repeatedly emphasize that next time will be better.

2. Be obedient to children. In order to be "good parents" in their children's minds, some parents do not hesitate to be obedient to their children, and even try their best to meet their unreasonable demands.

3, often beat and scold children. When a child is beaten by his parents, he will feel disgust and hatred for his parents. In the future, it is easy to fight violence with violence and take the initiative to beat others. Especially when children are five or six years old, they are most influenced by their parents. Because five or six years old is a critical period for individual psychological growth.