In terms of material needs, Japanese parents have very low educational material needs for their children, while Chinese mothers hope to provide their children with high-quality and advanced teaching environment. The teaching facilities in many kindergartens and primary schools in Japan are very simple, and wooden materials are used to create a learning and living environment close to nature. The progress of science and technology has not deprived children of the opportunity to get in touch with nature at school. In kindergartens and primary schools in China, the educational environment and high-tech facilities are more perfect, and parents of children are willing to pay high prices for their children to study in a more comfortable environment.
In terms of behavior habits, Japanese parents and China parents have very different educational concepts in educating their children. For example, Japanese parents educate their children to work more and exercise their independent living ability. Some kindergartens even let their children wear shorts and short sleeves in winter in order to make them have healthier bodies and tenacious will. Chinese mothers educate their children to do their own things and cultivate their hands-on ability and labor consciousness, but they will never let their children play in the snow with bare arms. Chinese mothers may feel cruel. What if their child is ill? Will the kindergarten be responsible? Chinese mothers will think that such behavior is abusing their children.
In terms of etiquette education, Japanese educated children have to learn Japanese traditional etiquette since they are sensible, while China's parents don't have such a grand etiquette education, which is related to national culture. In Japan, every graduated child will experience a grand graduation ceremony. No matter how old the child is, he should wear a suit at the graduation ceremony and bow to thank the teacher at the graduation ceremony. Most parents in China may not understand this grandiose graduation ceremony. Chinese mothers believe that it is enough to be polite and upright to outsiders and develop good habits. Say hello without bowing and smiling, and wear a suit from kindergarten.
There is a reason why Chinese mothers don't understand Japanese education, because Chinese and Japanese traditional cultures are different. It is normal for Chinese mothers to have many incomprehensible Japanese educational methods.