In real life or work and study, there are still quite a few cases of using deeds. According to the different scope, deeds can be divided into collective deeds and personal deeds. How should we draft deeds and materials? The following is the advanced deeds of outstanding parents I collected, hoping to help everyone.

Advanced deeds of excellent parents 1 I was really scared when I saw that our parents were asked to write stories about the deeds of excellent parents. As parents, we just did some due responsibilities and obligations, but the school gave us such a high honor. It's really embarrassing. Let's talk about our experience in educating children.

We believe that family is the first environment for children's life, and its influence plays an extremely important role in the cultivation of children's good moral behavior. Every parent is a child's first teacher and a lifelong teacher. Parents' education for their children is a useful supplement to school education. It is the urgent need and hope of every parent to cultivate their children into a person who is physically and mentally healthy, has an independent personality and is useful to society. We have paid attention to the cultivation of children since childhood, so that she can grow up healthily in a normal environment.

First, set an example and let children have a good example.

Parents are children's first teachers, and children's initial words and deeds are obtained from their parents. Usually, I insist on doing things honestly, being friendly to others, never slacking off my career, and making a mirror for my children in all aspects. And often tell children that if you want others to be good to you, you must be good to others first; As you treat others, others will treat you. Always tell children stories of doing good deeds, guide children to get along well with every classmate in the class, be good at discovering the advantages of classmates, be willing to help classmates, and let children understand that only when they like classmates will classmates like themselves. Let children develop a good style of integrity, friendliness and diligence from an early age.

Second, communicate with children often and be their mentor.

Children often have their own ideas. If they can't communicate with their children in time and effectively, they can't understand the problems they encounter on their way to growth. So every day when I get home, I will chat with my children for a while. During this time, I will listen to my child tell me how she felt during the day like a story. I got full marks in the exam and was praised by the teacher. I was criticized by the teacher for writing wrong words in my homework, and I was in a bad mood when I was in conflict with my classmates. There are several colors of flowers in school. Listening to children tell their own stories every day sounds trivial, but listening to children's voices makes them willing to express their thoughts and opinions. Parents point out her advantages and disadvantages like friends, and if there is something, change it, and if there is nothing, encourage it. It plays a very important role in children's growth, especially for their physical and mental health.

Third, always put learning first.

Learning is the bounden duty of students, so we have always stressed to our children that learning is the first thing at any time. I cooperate with the teaching measures of the school. Usually, I actively read various educational magazines, learn good educational ideas and methods from them, get in touch with teachers and cooperate with teachers to educate children. Children begin to study formally from the first year of high school, and their study habits are very important, so I accompany them to do their homework every night, help them do their homework, recite dictation, read extracurricular books, correct their sitting posture and so on. Slowly, the children formed the habit of studying consciously. Our parents began to accompany them. When the children are doing their homework, I read my professional books, from tutoring homework to checking homework. I emphasize that the child is not serious about writing and homework, which further makes her develop the habit of consciously correcting mistakes. At the same time, in the process of accompanying children to study, I strengthened my professional knowledge. This is the best of both worlds! When children see their parents lead by example, they will follow their parents' example and study harder and harder. I often hear some colleagues say that children are doing homework and parents either watch TV or laugh loudly; Or invite a group of people to play mahjong at home. I think this is very bad for children, both physically and psychologically!

Fourth, actively participate in extracurricular activities and give children room for free development.

Nowadays, children are basically only children. Apart from going to school, there is little time to play with children at other times. Playing is children's nature. If the child's nature is artificially strangled, there will be many psychological problems, either withdrawn or arrogant. Therefore, in order not to let the child have this regret, in addition to normal study, we try to let her contact with the child and play with other children on weekends. In the youth activity center, this problem is just solved. She not only has many good friends, but also has a wide range of interests. Children have participated in piano, calligraphy, singing, painting, dancing, small hosting and so on since childhood. For these hobbies, we only ask the child to study happily and play happily, and don't force her to achieve anything. Because there is no pressure, children learn easily and happily. Children's life has become colorful, their personality has become cheerful and generous, and they are warm and friendly to children, United and friendly, helping others, and become good children that everyone likes.

Two words are particularly popular now, IQ and EQ. In modern society, it is not enough to let children compete in their studies. It is also important to let children adapt to the development of society and deal with the relationship between good people. IQ is the capital of survival, but EQ is the guarantee of quality of life. As each of our parents, everyone who has experienced it knows that only by organically combining the two aspects can children become excellent children who are fully developed morally, intellectually and physically, adapt to society and become outstanding talents in the future.

My educational philosophy is: listen to children's voices and give them free space; Share children's successes and setbacks and give them rational guidance. I am willing to work with all parents to light up their children's life course with smiles and encouragement, and be a mountain that children can always rely on.

Advanced deeds of excellent parents 2. Family is the first school in children's life. Parents are the first teachers to cultivate children's good conduct. XXX parents attach great importance to their children's family education. He pays special attention to cultivating children's self-care, self-reliance, social ability, analytical ability, logical thinking ability and practical ability. Help children develop in an all-round way from the bits and pieces of daily life. Because every child has different characteristics, there will be different changes at the age of growth, so he implemented some effective educational methods according to the characteristics of his own children, so as to achieve the goal of parents and children growing together.

First, pay attention to maintaining harmonious friendship with children.

He tries to make friends with children on the principle of equality, respect and listening. XX, a child with strong self-esteem, will easily arouse his disgust if he doesn't pay attention to the way adults teach him, so parents explain their thoughts and suggestions to their children in a euphemistic way. Let children correct their mistakes in a way that is easy for them to accept, and listen to the education of adults. Or beat about the bush, or praise first and then criticize.

For example, sometimes parents are busy at work and are not at home at noon after overtime, so they write a short message to their children. Sometimes they congratulate their children, even if they get 100 in listening and writing, and sometimes they sincerely criticize him for spending pocket money indiscriminately, and children are often willing to accept it. Moreover, insist on taking the bedtime at night as the communication time between parents and children. As soon as the lights go out, I lie with my children, talking about school and interesting things among my classmates. Parents listened patiently to his speech and supplemented their opinions from time to time. At this time, the child will be happy to listen to his comments on various aspects of his recent performance. In this way, children regard their parents as good friends and are willing to talk to their parents.

Second, pay attention to children's moral education.

XXX parents attach great importance to cultivating their children's ideological and moral education while doing a good job in their children's study.

First, always educate children to be caring, compassionate and understanding. XX likes small animals and keeps several goldfish at home. His parents supported him and reminded him to feed them and change water, which not only cultivated children's love, but also cultivated their sense of responsibility.

Second, treat the child as an ordinary member of the family, put him in an equal position, deny his special rights, avoid the "little emperor" consciousness, and put yourself first in everything.

Third, cultivate children to learn to control their desires from an early age. Parents always let their children know that the realization of their wishes is conditional and can only be achieved through hard work and struggle, and they must never do whatever they want.

Fourth, let children associate with friends from an early age. Sometimes it is inevitable to suffer some losses in communication, so that he can realize the benefits of loss and concession. Let children make a little sacrifice in their personal interests, and they will know how to be modest, helpful and get along well with their classmates.

Third, pay attention to cultivating children's awareness of being strong and self-reliant.

At home, cultivate children's sense of obligation to the family from an early age. Parents often say to their children, "Son, you are the pillar of our family. In the future, my parents are old, and I still count on you to take care of them! " "This sentence can be said to be a strong sense of responsibility for children. So in the second grade, children began to teach him to cook, stir-fry simple dishes and participate in housework. Do your own thing, and now it has become a child's habit to do a general cleaning at home every Saturday. It is precisely because of these labors and practical experience in life that children are always handy in writing such compositions. When going out to play, he will also take the initiative to help his parents carry bags and buy water.

Fourth, set an example and strengthen the management of children's learning.

XXX parents strive to create a good learning atmosphere for their children at home. Children do their homework every day, and parents will not turn on the TV to entertain themselves, but read books quietly and do things that will not affect their studies, so that children can study with peace of mind. In addition, pay attention to let children form good study habits, urge him to do his homework carefully, check independently, and encourage him to get rid of his carelessness. Before the second grade, parents will guide and analyze every unit test of their children to help them find the reasons for losing points and know where their gaps are. No matter how busy, parents will look at their children's homework and see how well they understand knowledge. If you do well in the exam, you will praise him and encourage him to refuel, and you won't blame him for not getting a high score. Let the child know that parents not only care about his life, but also care about his study. Knowing that learning is your own business, you should study hard, listen to the teacher and complete all the tasks assigned by the teacher. They know that the teacher is out of love for every student and understands the teacher's practice.

Parents try their best to let their children handle the relationship between study and play. Love to play is the nature of every child, and XX students are no exception, especially computer games. In view of his interest, his parents worked out a feasible timing method for him. He can only play once a week, and he earns all his playing time. Take daily life study as the bonus standard, and the time is controlled at about 40 minutes. In order to earn time to play, he should make quilts carefully and independently every day, observe the time of watching TV, finish his homework on time, and observe the schedule, because computer games are his favorite! He can accept it, abide by it, and is not addicted.

Another thing that children especially like is reading. At first, his parents told him to watch it. Later, he told his parents to watch together and share the happiness of reading. He has developed the habit of reading and a strong interest since he was a child. So sometimes the reward is his favorite book. Often take him to the bookstore to play, but also let him go by himself, give him money and let him decide what books to buy. Nowadays, his favorite books are everywhere at home, such as bookcases, bedside, coffee table ... children can get books to read at any time and anywhere. It is these good reading habits that make children master a lot of extracurricular knowledge, especially popular science knowledge.

Although the child has grown up, he still likes playing with toys. Parents always buy him some operable and educational toys when they come back from a long trip, such as nine-chain locks and magic rulers. Let him give full play to his imagination and turn puzzles into objects in life. I also buy some books on small scientific experiments to guide and help children to do some scientific experiments, actively start work, and develop imagination, creativity and practical ability.

In the process of children's growth, XXX's parents have paid a lot, but he has gained a lot. His children have been excellent students in their classes for many years.

I am the parent of Feng Jinjing, Class 3, Grade 3. Thank you for the trust of the school and teachers, and give me this opportunity to communicate with parents about their children's family education.

In fact, experience is far from this, just a little experience that children have summed up in school in the past three years. The children's progress and achievements in school are mainly attributed to the care and education of the class teacher and all the teaching teachers. Here, I thank you! As a parent, I only did some cooperation work. In fact, parents here must have many good educational methods. Let me give you a report on my experience in educating children:

First, the requirements for children should be realistic.

As parents, we all have a good wish that our children will prosper in the future, but not all children can be satisfied because of individual differences. Excessive expectations will make children feel that no matter how hard they try, they can't meet their parents' requirements, and even give up their efforts, lose confidence in learning and become distrustful of themselves. As parents, no matter what our children do, as long as they work hard, we will give them recognition.

Second, cultivate children to develop good study habits and living habits.

1. Help children form the habit of finishing homework independently.

When children study at home, the most important thing is to do their homework besides reviewing what they have learned in school all day. Homework must be done by children independently, and parents should not accompany them, so that children will concentrate more on their studies. It's not that you don't care about your child's performance. On the contrary, with parents, children will have an invisible pressure, which greatly reduces the learning effect. When children encounter problems in their studies, parents should correctly guide them to think about the problems and let them finish them independently. Parents should not be impatient and tell him the answer directly, so that the child will become dependent.

2. How to check children's homework?

Checking children's homework is an important part of family study guidance and a "compulsory course" for parents.

First of all, the correctness of homework is a problem that parents must pay attention to when checking homework. Secondly, whether the work efficiency is qualified or not, don't put off half an hour's work for one hour. Therefore, children are required to concentrate when doing homework, not to be distracted, and develop a good habit of accurately completing homework in the shortest time. Parents should give their children a positive evaluation after checking their homework. Homework is written more neatly than before, and the accuracy of calculation is also improved. This is undoubtedly an encouragement to the child, because his efforts have been duly affirmed, and at the same time, it has created a good psychological atmosphere for your criticism and suggestions.

3. Help children develop the habit of sorting out and caring for school supplies.

Let children know that they must do their own things, don't find someone to replace them, don't rely on their parents, and cultivate their good self-care ability. No matter what they do, they are very organized. Are the books on the desk neat, the exercise books clean and the schoolbags messy? This requires parents to set an example and set an example for their children. Let children develop the good habit of sorting out and caring for school supplies.

Third, when you see your child's progress, you must speak out.

We in China are reserved and not good at expressing our inner thoughts in words. I wonder if my parents feel the same way. Anyway, I do sometimes. If the children behave badly, we will reprimand them. If the child behaves well, he is only secretly happy, but he will not say it to let the child know. In fact, it should be said, which is also a good encouragement for children to know what they should do and have more confidence in themselves.

Fourth, we should lead by example.

Parents are the first teachers of the children. We educate our children not by what you say, but by what you do. This is to educate children, set an example for children and ask them to do it. Parents should do it first. Sometimes we don't do what we said. After the child points out, as parents, we should put down our airs, admit our mistakes to our children immediately and correct them immediately. In this way, children can not only learn the truth of being a man, but also have sincere respect for their parents, and their prestige will be truly established.

Five, more contact with the class teacher, master the child's performance in school.

It is necessary to keep in touch with the class teacher in time to let parents know about their children's performance at school and let teachers know about their children's learning at home.

Watching children change day by day, as a parent, I see it in my eyes and am happy in my heart. I know that every progress she has made can't be separated from the teachers' earnest teaching. Children are children after all, and sometimes they can't control themselves. As long as we pay more attention to children's changes, communicate with them more, respect them and guide them correctly, our children will grow up healthily and happily.

Materials of Advanced Deeds of Excellent Parents 4 Family is the first classroom for children and the first social environment for children to contact. Parents' quality, personality image and practical behavior have a vital influence on the formation of children's ideological and moral character, and are the key factors to determine the success or failure of family education. How to educate the only child well is a big topic for every family. Daughter Huai Jiaxuan, 10 years old, a student in class 4 1 in Yuhong Primary School. Her growth is healthy, because she has a healthy mind, a healthy body and a healthy life.

Like most parents, we deeply feel that educating children is an art, just like creating a painting. We should add every stroke to her heart, enrich every color and leave the least regret.

First, establish a good parent-child relationship, improve their own quality and create a harmonious and beautiful family environment for children.

The child grew up with us. As parents, we have created a harmonious and warm family atmosphere full of happiness and care for her. We never adopt paternalistic discipline, but communicate with each other as friends. At home, everyone can express their opinions at will. If they are correct, they will be adopted, respected and considerate. In terms of children's hobbies, we respect her personality development, and parents give appropriate guidance to cultivate children's hobbies.

In order to let her have a more direct perceptual knowledge, we have taken her to Tsinghua, Peking University and other first-class universities, accompanied her to science museums, art galleries, natural museums and other places to broaden her knowledge horizons, and let her learn to aim at outstanding people and sow the seeds of lofty aspirations in her young mind.

As a parent, I do my duty as a parent. We have been creating a harmonious and beautiful family environment for our children.

We know that in a family, parents are the main targets of children's imitation. My husband and wife value their parents' role models in front of their children. Every night, we have to read and study. In such an atmosphere, children are influenced by subtle influences from childhood and form a good habit of loving reading.

We respect children's ideas, and care about not only her physical growth but also her psychological growth. The child is ten years old and has his own thoughts. Many things have his own opinions. I often take the initiative to communicate with children on an equal footing. We create a relaxed and good environment for children to grow up. Living in this environment, children are calm and happy. Now children are willing to share everything with me, and they are more sensible and easier to discipline. Children can grow up healthily and lively.

I once lost my temper with my children. After I calmed down, I felt that this was not the solution to the problem, and I had to discuss it with my calm children. I regard my children as my friends. I take the initiative to admit my mistake to my child and apologize to her for what I said and did wrong. As a result, the child gradually told me everything. What happened at school, what happened between classmates, and even trivial things, we also talked to each other. What she thought, whether it was confusion in study or troubles in life, was also taken out to discuss with her mother. We feel relaxed and happy every time we talk. Mutual trust and respect. These good family atmosphere make her lively, cheerful and happy! Very popular with classmates and teachers.

Second, adhere to close contact with schools and society, and study hard to master the scientific knowledge and methods of educating children.

The parent-teacher conference at school is an activity that I am extremely concerned about. No matter how busy I am at work, I will take time to take an active part. This is not only to improve their own quality, but also to respect children, so that children feel that they attach great importance to her and that her affairs are no small matter. This is also the best opportunity for us to get to know children and communicate with teachers and parents.

In my heart, I always think that teachers are the most respectable. Teachers are the hardest, really like candles burning themselves to illuminate others. So I am very supportive of children's participation in school activities. I always analyze problems from the teacher's point of view. I think teachers are all for the good of children, whether it is criticism or praise. Children get more praise, and I will educate her to guard against arrogance and rashness and continue to work hard; When a child encounters difficulties, I will guide her to face them positively and overcome them. The class teacher is also very concerned about the growth of children. When children are found to be lax in discipline or have other problems, we will communicate by phone or talk face to face, and home and school will join hands to educate together.

Third, it is important to teach children to be human beings and establish a correct concept of teaching children.

We value children's lives more than their studies. In the process of children's growth, I think the most important thing in education is to teach children to be human and learn to live in the world. What kind of person do you want to be? Be a person who respects parents and teachers, is honest and caring for others, and has self-esteem, self-love, self-confidence and self-improvement.

At ordinary times, we pay attention to cultivating and training children's good living habits, and encourage her to participate in recreational sports and social activities in some schools to promote the healthy development of children's body and mind.

At home, I also pay attention to guiding her to participate in housework as much as possible, supporting children to participate in social welfare work, taking her to travel when I have time, broadening my horizons, exercising my ability, and paying attention to cultivating children's self-care ability and work habits.

I often talk to my child about my work experience and tell her that no matter what she does, she should have a dedicated and serious attitude, and so should her study. Now, children have basically developed good study and living habits.

In the blink of an eye, the child has grown up gradually, and the painstaking efforts of education are bearing gratifying fruits on the child. We are glad to see that the children are lively and cheerful, distinguish between right and wrong, be sensible and obedient, and have a sense of collective honor ... We are moved by the growth and progress of the children.

Perhaps the child's study is not the best, but her sense of collective responsibility, kindness and justice, as well as her habit of reading, all let us see great hope!

Life is limited and learning is limited. As parents, we should strengthen our study, educate our children scientifically, and strive to make family education and school education grow together! Become an excellent guide on the road of children's life! Create a broader blue sky for the healthy growth of children!

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