And I grew up in such a family environment, and the requirements for children are the same. Even the rice dropped on the table should be picked up and eaten, and it is not allowed to watch it at home with the TV on when eating.
Do you want to educate your children to pick up the rice that has fallen on the table? As I said before, in our family, children will definitely be taught to pick it up and eat it. If you don't educate your child to eat the food he dropped on the table, the child will pretend to have dropped the food on the table all the time if he doesn't want to eat it in the future, so that he doesn't have to eat the food he doesn't like.
Moreover, educating children to pick up the rice grains that have fallen on the dining table can also let them know how to cherish food and cultivate good eating habits.
Under what circumstances, it is not suitable for children to pick up the rice dropped on the table and eat it? 1. Eat in a restaurant
If you take your child to a restaurant and drop the rice on the table, there is no need for the child to pick it up and eat it. After all, the sanitary environment outside is not as good as at home, and I don't know how many bacteria are infected when rice falls on the table. Also tell your child to eat slowly with a bowl in his hand, so that it is not easy to drop rice grains.
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The family got together, there were adults and children, and everyone was having a good time. Then your child's meal fell on the table, but you taught the child to pick it up and eat it in front of everyone. If the child is obedient, it is better to pick it up and eat it quietly. If the child is not happy and refuses you, then everyone will think that you are making a mountain out of a molehill, and some even think that you are talking about the child who lost his meal by the way.
See what parents think about this problem.
Netizen 1: My children also had this habit when they were young. When the rice fell on the table, they picked it up and ate it. Every time I see it, I will say that he has become a habit. After all, it is dirty when you drop it on the table, and the table at home is better. I often clean myself. But many people eat on the table outside and feel dirty and have bacteria, so I'll talk more about him. Maybe I said too much. Children will pay special attention not to fall off the table when eating, so parents should educate and guide their children and gradually change their bad habits.
Netizen 2: My suggestion is not to educate. Don't pick up the rice that has fallen on the table or on the ground. In order to cultivate children's good hygiene habits, if you are worried that children will develop the habit of not cherishing food, you can let children eat as much as possible and eat the rice in the bowl. Tell the children that food is hard to come by, and we should cherish the fruits of farmers' uncles' labor. However, if children really fall into a lot of rice on the dining table, parents are advised to bring their children a bib that can hold food, so that the bib will be clean, and children will form the habit of cherishing food and will not develop bad eating habits.
Netizen 3: See how old the child is. Different stages have different treatment methods. If children eat in dining chairs when they are very young and eat everywhere by themselves, they should first make their dining chairs and dining tables very clean. If children eat by themselves, we should tell them that we won't eat, and we can eat by ourselves if we want. Don't let children pick it up when eating out, the environment outside can't be guaranteed.
Summary:
Children always inadvertently drop rice grains when eating. It is necessary for parents to properly educate their children to take rice home to eat, but it is not necessary to ask for it every time. As long as children develop this good habit, they can consciously pick up the rice grains after eating.