Parents, as the enlighteners of children, have a far-reaching influence on their growth. In order to make children grow up healthily, parents must choose scientific and reasonable educational methods. However, some educational methods may have a negative impact on children's growth. This paper will discuss these unfavorable parenting styles to help parents guide their children better.

Overprotection and supervision

Excessive protection and supervision of children may weaken the cultivation of children's self-concept and autonomy. Parents should follow the principle of "as long as children can do it themselves, they will never replace it" to cultivate their self-care ability.

Intimidate children

Threatening children will weaken their self-concept and make them feel uneasy. Parents should avoid intimidating their children, but help them realize their mistakes through reasonable guidance.

Force the child to agree.

Forcing children to promise not to make mistakes again does not play a positive role. Parents should understand that neither commitment nor threat is an effective way of education. Instead, they should encourage children to admit their mistakes and seek solutions to help them establish correct behavior patterns.

Despise or despise children.

Ignoring or belittling children's words and deeds will seriously hurt their self-esteem and weaken their self-concept. Parents should avoid using such words, but encourage and affirm them to enhance their children's self-confidence and self-esteem.

Cultivate independent personality

When educating their children, parents should pay attention to cultivating their independent personality and encourage and reasonably guide their behavior. Through the correct educational methods, parents can help their children build a healthy personality and grow into confident and capable individuals.