About what? Respect education? The first article of the paper
On Respect Education
In order to meet the needs of the development of the times, it is necessary for China education to implement the concept of respecting education, thus promoting the development of humanistic education. Because of respect, a harmonious and relaxed atmosphere can be formed; Only harmony and relaxation can cultivate creative talents.
Keywords: respect for education, harmonious and innovative talents
David Packard, 37, once said: A company has a higher responsibility than shareholders to make money. We should be responsible for our employees and acknowledge their dignity. ? It was Pacard, the founder who respected others' thoughts and spirits, who created today's industrial empire of HP.
Therefore, it is particularly important to respect education in this era. The new century has put forward higher requirements for basic education, and the self-awareness of contemporary teenagers has developed unprecedentedly, and the demand for respect is getting stronger and stronger. Are you online? People-oriented? Driven by this educational concept, it is very necessary for us to put? Respect other people's education? Infiltrate and expand into basic education.
With all due respect, over the years. People are always used to talking about respecting teachers and valuing education. In fact, everything is mutual, as the saying goes: take first, give first. ? All men are created equal. Students are required to respect teachers, and teachers should also respect students.
First of all, we should respect students' self-esteem. Makarenko, a Soviet educator, said: My basic principle has always been to ask as many people as possible, but at the same time, to respect them as much as possible. ? It can be said that self-esteem is a positive person. Internal motivation to overcome shortcomings. Therefore, teachers should fully respect and trust students so that they can consciously learn and correct their own mistakes and shortcomings. Any disrespectful behavior may damage students' self-esteem and greatly reduce the effect of education. Therefore, in the face of students' words and deeds, we should always be highly sensitive, be based on love, be strict with love, fully respect students' personality and self-esteem, trust students, and care for them from the heart. Teachers should treat poor students and excellent students equally, educate and encourage them enthusiastically, teach by example, and take pains not to punish or insult students physically and psychologically. Respect their personality and self-esteem and form a harmonious and natural atmosphere. In this way, let them be respected in an atmosphere of respect and learn to respect others.
Secondly, we should respect the individual differences of students.
Education in China seems to have gone too far. For most students, the only criterion for selecting talents is score, which often makes teachers ignore the individual differences of students. The same teaching materials, the same test papers and the same requirements, the direct result is that some students feel like a duck to water and find a stage to display their talents, but some students are tired of learning or even play truant, and regard learning as a scourge.
Hold out five fingers. Each has its own length, but it is by no means the longest. They each have their own characteristics, and any one is incomplete without them. The same is true of human society. People are born different. Each individual is composed of unique personality tendencies and psychological characteristics, and has different needs, motivations, interests, ideals, beliefs and worldviews. But it will make a unique contribution to our society. It is the individual differences of people that make human society wonderful. What's more, there is no reason not to respect the individual differences of students. In a sense, there is no model for talent training. Only by respecting students' individual differences, teaching students in accordance with their aptitude and giving them the most needed and appropriate education according to their ability structure and development level can students' potential be brought into full play.
Of course, respect does not mean blind obedience, and it is inevitable for students to break their anchors. Guide and correct students to develop in the right direction, but on the way, we should respect students' reasonable composition and allow students to show their individuality. Like a tree. Only the upward development of the trunk is monotonous, and the leafy leaves are more exciting. Only by respecting students' individual differences can we cultivate diversified and creative talents.
In the process of basic education and teaching, I think we should especially respect students' thinking.
In the process of Chinese teaching. It often involves the analysis of the image of the work and the perception of the work. In the final analysis, this aspect of teaching is to cultivate students' thinking ability. Students are in the formative period of their outlook on life and world, and they are not good at weighing things comprehensively and objectively, and their thinking is not necessarily comprehensive and accurate, and their views are often different because of individual differences. But in any case, this is the embodiment of students' subjective initiative, which deserves respect. Teachers can discuss, discuss and persuade with them, and should not demand students with standardized answers, or even rudely curb students' individualized thinking.
Remember translating the Analects of Confucius? Never tire of learning and never tire of teaching. Referring to reference books, my answer is: learning is never satisfied, and educating others is never tired. What can I have? At this time, a student felt wrong and said that it should be translated into? What is wrong with me? I am embarrassed, because from the requirements of classical Chinese translation, both of these answers are reasonable, but they involve Kong Yu's character. Is it a hidden needle or a personality? In the following discussion, I found that the student's answer was very reasonable. He said that from the life experience of Confucius, he traveled around the world for more than ten years to publicize his political opinions; The purpose of opening a private school to recruit disciples is also to spread knowledge and his own political opinions. Such Confucius must be a man with a flamboyant personality, not a modest one. After careful consideration, I respect his idea and admit that his answer is very reasonable.
This case fully shows that students' thinking is not blind, but speculative, which deserves our respect. And once students' thinking is respected. Its subsequent impact should not be underestimated. This will make them stop blindly worshiping authority, dare to doubt and dare to put forward their own opinions. I believe this is an essential quality for creative talents. Only in an atmosphere of respect can students take the initiative to learn, and their desire for exploration and creative spirit can be stimulated.
In recent years, Chinese test papers have always appeared. Reference? Does that make sense? I think this shows respect for students' thinking. Our usual teaching should also work hard in this direction to cultivate creative talents.
American psychologist Maslow, as the founder of humanistic psychology, has long regarded respecting needs as one of the basic needs of human beings. Today, with the unprecedented expansion of humanistic thought, the need for respect deserves more and more attention from the education sector. In education and teaching, if we can communicate with students with a positive attitude, an equal attitude and a caring language, we should respect their individual differences and their thinking. Creating a good learning atmosphere will certainly enable students to form a good psychological quality. Only in the garden of education can a hundred flowers blossom, birds contend and bees fly.
About what? Respect education? The second article of the paper
Do a good job of respecting students
Abstract? Touching people, don't worry about feelings first? Education is an emotional art. Facing a group of children with thoughts and feelings, we should love students, trust and respect them, understand and tolerate them, and win their trust and respect, which becomes a key to the success of education. In this educational process, our teachers can also get out of the boredom and disgust of educating children in the past and find a kind of warmth from the educational process.
Keywords dignity; People-oriented; be sure of oneself
After graduating from college, I started my yearning for a teacher's job. I have been a class teacher since my first year of teaching, and it has been eight years now. In the past eight years, in the process of leading children through a wonderful learning career, I have accumulated my own educational experience bit by bit, and also improved my teaching quality bit by bit, from a fledgling young teacher to a respected head teacher in the eyes of students. In the past eight years, recalling the course of success, what impressed me the most is that students can truly be themselves only if they get enough respect.
Suhomlinski told us:? The essence of education is to let students always experience their sense of dignity. ? A successful educator must know how to respect students, understand their natural endowments and personality characteristics in detail, and teach students in accordance with their aptitude on this basis, giving them broad and free development space. As the manager and leader of class work, the process of class management is essentially a process of two-way emotional communication between teachers and students. Only by respecting students' personality and self-esteem, treating every student equally and holding high? People-oriented? Only in this way can students have a sense of security, pleasure and dignity in their study and life, and their potential and intelligence can be fully developed.
First, respect and let children have their own dignity.
Dignity is something that cannot be wasted in the human soul. A writer once said: People are subjected to all kinds of shocks, some on the spine, some on nerves, some on morality and feelings, but the most intense and lasting one is personal dignity. ? A child who has lost his dignity since childhood can hardly become an upright person and have a sound personality when he grows up.
There is such a story. As a young painter, he is brilliant but timid. Once, he was invited to eat with some friends. He always sits in the corner of the table, doesn't talk to everyone very much, and even refuses to eat eggs, which makes everyone feel puzzled. Later, in a heart-to-heart conversation, he revealed the secret. It turned out that when he was in kindergarten, he encountered such a thing: the children at the bedside brought a basket of food from home and hung it on the bedside. One day, the child told the teacher that the egg was lost. The teacher didn't investigate clearly and thought the painter ate it secretly. When he refused to admit it, the teacher locked him in a dark room and wouldn't let him go out. The painter said he was too scared, so he admitted it against his will. So, children always scold him? Thief? . He was four years old that year. From then on, he felt a sense of fear at the sight of eggs.
Hearing this story, I feel so sad that I want to cry. Is this teacher really a qualified people's teacher? Not to mention his mistakes in the investigation process, the saddest thing is that he doesn't know that his extreme behavior has hurt a child's trust in the teacher and completely trampled on the dignity of a young child. If the teacher hears the painter, I wonder if it will make him reflect?
In fact, every teacher should know that respecting students is a teacher's professional ethics, and respecting students means safeguarding students' personal dignity. Regrettably, incidents of teachers abusing students still occur frequently, and some of them are even outrageous. Students are human beings and independent people, especially minors. Teachers must give them enough respect and protection. You know, dignity is an inviolable thing in the human soul. It is difficult for a student who loses his dignity to be an upright person when he grows up, and it is difficult to walk with his head up. Without dignity, how can people talk about self-confidence and self-improvement? Students' understanding of dignity is more often achieved through teachers' teaching and their own personal feelings. As teachers, we should guide people, not trample on others. Only respecting students is the starting point of guidance.
Second, respect? People-oriented? The true meaning of
Everyone has a strong self-esteem and wants to be respected by others. Students also have dignity, because they are not completely independent, so they have stronger self-esteem and need more respect from others. Therefore, we advocate the importance of education. People-oriented? Today, only by truly changing teachers' outdated educational concepts can we stop using them? Instructor judges? Face, condescending to students, and in exchange for equal communication attitude and tone; Treating students with a patient, careful and caring attitude is the key to improving education and teaching. As a teacher, we must change our old ideas and treat our students as real equals? People? . Only by fully respecting students and treating every student fairly and equally can students regard teachers as their true friends and sincerely respect and get close to them. Only by deeply understanding students and sincerely loving them can we treat students with a developmental perspective and respect them in the right way. I believe that as long as every teacher respects every student, we will definitely open the door of students' hearts and pave a new way for our own education and teaching.
Teachers and students are bamboos in this big bamboo forest on campus and should be equally rooted in the soil. Therefore, it is necessary for teachers to treat children with equal vision and equal attitude. Treating children equally is the greatest respect for students. I still remember that after the monthly exam last semester, I asked the students to take the papers home and let the parents write a few words to the teacher in class. A female classmate in my class handed me the test paper shyly, and I could see that her expression was embarrassed. I took the test paper and saw these words written on it: The student is poor in study and doesn't study hard at ordinary times. I hope teachers will criticize education more. At that time, I thought, how can you say that about children? Isn't this throwing cold water on children? I must help the children find their dignity. ? Thinking of this, I quickly pulled the child over and said very seriously, Yao Ting, I don't agree with your father! I don't think what he said is right! ? The child froze there. She probably never thought I would say such a thing. She even thought I would take the opportunity to mock her! ? Listen, Yao Ting, I know your foundation is not very good. This is the actual situation, but I also know that you don't want to fall behind, right? You want to get good grades, too You don't study as hard as your father said. ? The child bowed his head. I went on to say:? I see you are very careful in class and remember your notes in detail. ? I just said here, children's tears? Wow? It flowed down. I quickly handed over a piece of paper, touched her head gently with my hand and said, don't cry, the teacher knows that your heart is bitter, and I know that you have grown up. ? The child cried even more sadly. I know my words touched the child's heart and she was moved. Finally, the child slowly dried his tears and choked and said, don't worry, teacher, I will continue to work hard! ? I smiled and nodded? I believe you. I saw it all. I am very happy. But don't blame your father. Although he is wrong about you, he is also worried about you! Forgive him, okay? Yeah, I know. I will prove it to him. ? She bowed deeply to me and said, teacher, you are busy, I'll go first! ? Her tone and attitude when she spoke were so pious, and the respectful eyes were deeply imprinted in my mind, which made me understand the meaning of respect. As a teacher, it is impossible to get real respect in an unequal environment, only to respect students' behavior. Similarly, only when students are respected can they open their hearts to their teachers.
Third, respect, so that students can find confidence.
Self-confidence comes from an individual's correct understanding and evaluation of himself, and abundant self-confidence is an inexhaustible source and motivation for personal success. Students are in the initial stage of the formation and determination of self-confidence, and every respect and trust of teachers is sunshine and rain sprinkled on students' hearts. Suhomlinski said:? The secret of successful education lies in respecting students. Respect? For educational service providers, it is to strive to create a democratic, equal, harmonious and mutually promoting educational environment suitable for students' development and cultivate students? Respect? Consciousness and ability. To make students know how to respect, teachers must first learn to respect. I try to use it in practice? Ask the students to sit down and talk? 、? Don't look at people through peepholes? 、? No need? Poor students? A word? 、? Say hello to your classmates first? Other practices; When the student can't answer the question, give him a sincere encouragement; When a student violates discipline, give him a chance to correct it; When students encounter difficulties, enhance their courage to overcome them. And actively seize the opportunity of education, strive to find the bright spots in students, create opportunities for them to succeed, and let them truly experience the joy of success and enjoy the happiness of success. How can we be more respectful? In education and teaching, teachers will certainly be unable to care about students anytime and anywhere for various reasons. In order to win respect, teachers must carefully and keenly capture students' faces? Barometer? Respect for details, silence and children. Home for civil servants:
3. 1 treat students as your own children and get to know them comprehensively and carefully.
Russian educator ushinski pointed out:? If an educator wants to cultivate people in many ways, he must first understand students in many ways. ? Judging from our actual education process, many times, when students have all kinds of abnormalities, it is because of family or their own psychological changes, and we don't know it. At this time, as a teacher, if there is no in-depth and meticulous understanding and communication before, then when dealing with these abnormal situations, they will be arbitrary and even further hurt children. Therefore, we should have a comprehensive understanding of students, that is, we should not only understand the past lives of students themselves; It is also necessary to understand the family, living environment and various people or things that students often contact; It is necessary to understand the advantages and disadvantages of students' performance and their specialties; It is also necessary to understand the inner world of students, including their distress and anxiety. Only by understanding students comprehensively and deeply can we educate them well? The right medicine? Received practical results.
3.2 Make the best use of the situation and turn treason into sincere acceptance.
? A good soldier, guide him according to the situation? The original intention of this sentence is that people who are good at fighting must conform to the trend of things in order to win. This means that educators should guide children's education to develop in a correct and positive direction according to their interests, hobbies and development tendencies, and make their ideological and moral character change from spontaneous tendency to conscious expression of thoughts and behaviors. Therefore, in the process of educating students, we teachers must firmly grasp the children's personality characteristics and daily behavior habits under the premise of understanding, make the best use of the situation, and actively grasp what can awaken children in wrong behavior for education. In this process, children will not refuse to accept the teacher's education because of rebellious psychology, but will feel that the teacher really understands himself and is really good to himself, so that they can receive education better.
3.3 Teachers should pay attention to proper limit in speech.
A rude word can completely destroy a soul with conscience; A word of trust can save a sinking soul. A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June. As a teacher, if you want to respect your students, you should treat them politely. Idiot? 、? Fool? These insulting and sarcastic words stimulate students and make them lose confidence and self-esteem.
For many years, our education seems to have created an indisputable fact, that is: I am a teacher, so you have to listen to me? Students are always in a passive position in the process of education. And then what? Respect education? But let the teacher understand a truth:? Bitter? ,? By experience? Can't replace the growth of students. Growth takes time, and maturity needs to be honed. The teacher's duty is to help students find themselves and create a space suitable for the development of different students.
? Touching people, don't worry about feelings first? Education is an emotional art. Facing a group of children with thoughts and feelings, we should love students, trust and respect them, understand and tolerate them, and win their trust and respect, which becomes a key to the success of education. In this educational process, our teachers can also get out of the boredom and disgust of educating children in the past and find a kind of warmth from the educational process.