First of all, parents should consider their children's education from many aspects, not only simple book learning, but also violent education because children are not interested in book learning. In today's society, reading is not the only way out. Only art or professional technical study can win a place for children in the future.

Secondly, the starting point of parents' violence education is mostly to hope that children can study more consciously, learn better and have more choices in the future. However, many parents pay too much attention to the paper results obtained by simple knowledge input and output, and ignore the importance of interest. Even if the child finishes his homework under the violence education, but his mind is still not on the study, then the same scene will inevitably be staged again, and the parent-child relationship will fall into a vicious circle of constant violence and constant submission. Older children will also lead to violent resistance, which is very unfavorable to children's development and character formation, leading to children's lack of inner security.

Finally, the solution to the above problems should be good communication. Although the child's thoughts are still immature and his views on things are not comprehensive enough, I believe he will not refuse to communicate with him gently in a language he can understand. The first thing parents should ask is why children don't want to do their homework, because they are not interested, because the homework is too difficult to do, because they are resistant, or because they want to watch TV. Ask clearly, then parents can prescribe the right medicine. For those who are not interested, parents need to consider for a long time and provide other choices for their children in combination with their interests. If it is too difficult, it means that parents usually need to spend more time with their children, give them more homework guidance, and contact teachers to understand their children's learning at school; If it is out of playful psychology, then it is necessary to carry out civilized rewards and punishments and tell him how long he can play games after completing his homework and tasks every day, but he should not indulge in unlimited play. He can't leave without finishing his homework first, and he has long formed good habits.