The so-called rebellious period is the process from children to teenagers. At this time, children are sensitive and active and will show themselves to others, especially the opposite sex of the same age. Just to attract attention, as long as parents and teachers live in peace like friends and guide them carefully and patiently, everything will naturally return to the normal life track. So, how to educate the children in the rebellious period of the first day?

First of all, parents should praise their children's advantages and give them respect. Parents should not talk endlessly about their children's shortcomings, nor should they compare their children's shortcomings with the advantages of other children. We should find out the advantages of children, encourage them more and reduce the resistance to parents. Take care of children's daily life. You can take your children out to play as appropriate. At this stage, children's learning pressure is much higher than that of primary school. There are only three or four courses in primary school. Since junior high school, the number of courses has doubled and there are many homework. At this stage, children are in a transitional adaptation period, especially those who have just entered junior high school. Quite a few children have problems in stress adaptation. They got good grades in primary school, but their grades in junior high school dropped sharply.

Secondly, children are allowed to make small mistakes. Children in grade five or six in primary school and grade one or two in junior high school are forming their own subjective consciousness, and it is inevitable to make some small mistakes occasionally. As parents, let children make a little mistake and suffer a little loss, and don't restrict their hands and feet too much. At the same time, parents themselves should establish a correct outlook on life, world outlook and values, and set an example for their children. Children in rebellious period have very strong imitation ability, so good words and deeds of parents are very important to children.

Third, get to know children and make friends with them. Children are eager for their parents' guidance. Parents should patiently listen to their children's confusion and confusion, guide them from the perspective of adults, let them rely on them when they are helpless, and talk to them when they are in pain. Parents and children can be good friends. ? Parents need to learn to put themselves in others' shoes.

Finally, communicate well. Paying attention to children's emotions and a warm and relaxed family atmosphere can effectively help children relieve stress. Secondly, let the children speak freely. When children are found to be emotionally abnormal, parents should find the right time to talk with their children and guide them. Finally, never call your child a "bad boy". Parents should not give their children a completely negative evaluation, but should see the advantages of their children.