Parents instill this concept of "poverty" in their children with the intention of hoping that their children can be thrifty and make progress. But in fact, this lack and heavy feeling has become a shackle that binds children's development.

There are also many children, because they were short of material things when they were young, and they are crazy about pursuing material satisfaction when they grow up. But after getting it, I still feel that the inner hole is not satisfied and the material desire becomes difficult to fill. No matter what I have, I can't feel happy.

Parents really don't need to cry in front of their children. Crying poor at any time will only bring infinite mental pressure and psychological constraints to children. Failure to do or meet the requirements will make children feel sorry for their parents. Such a parent-child relationship, parents have a sense of sacrifice, children have a sense of guilt and debt.

And each of us can only be passively instilled with his/her three views by our parents intentionally or unintentionally from an early age.

A few unfortunate people will also encounter ideological and spiritual influences from twisted, abnormal and abnormal parents, which will have unimaginable adverse effects on their later lives.

Finally, parents are the children's first teachers. Family education, family style and family training have laid the foundation for every child's future. I wish every parent can be their first teacher!

And because of lack, it breeds the fear of insecurity. Fear loses, fear gets too little, pays too much, and a sense of scarcity occupies the heart and fills all aspects of life. Because I always focus on what I lack and what I lack, I keep asking for it, so it is difficult to concentrate my attention and appreciation on the existing resources, and I can't feel the generous gift of God and appreciate the beauty of myself.

Imagine that a child who grew up in such a family will inevitably become a poor child with no sense of security and lack.

That's how I grew up. As a result, I may not be able to delay my satisfaction now. Compromise easily when you encounter a little interest, and you can't see long-term interests.

Besides, I still feel very inferior in my heart. I just want to go to familiar places when I go out, and I dare not go to unfamiliar places; There is no gas field outside, and I feel easily bullied; I'm afraid of beautiful things and going to beautiful places. I am very happy when others are kind to me, and I am very sad when there is something wrong. Dare not refuse; Dare not say if you suffer losses; I don't think I deserve good things.