1. Improve communication: keep good communication with children, understand their thoughts and needs, and respect their opinions. Listen more and blame less, so that children can feel the care and support of their parents.
2. Build trust: Trust is the cornerstone of the relationship between parents and children. Parents should trust their children's ability, give them enough freedom and space, and let them solve their own problems.
3. Make rules: Parents need to make reasonable rules and boundaries for their children, so that children can understand what is acceptable behavior and what is unacceptable behavior. At the same time, parents should set an example, abide by the rules and set an example.
4. Encourage independence: Encourage children to think and solve problems independently, and cultivate children's autonomy and sense of responsibility. Parents can let go appropriately, let their children undertake some housework and study tasks, and exercise their ability and will.
5. Pay attention to mental health: pay attention to children's mental health and find and solve children's psychological problems in time. If necessary, you can seek the help of a professional psychological counselor.
6. Cultivate hobbies: Encourage children to develop hobbies, participate in extracurricular activities, broaden their horizons and enrich their life experiences. This helps children to establish correct values and outlook on life.
7. Adjustment of educational methods: Parents should adopt appropriate educational methods according to their children's age and personality characteristics. For high school students, we can try more guidance and heuristic education instead of simple orders and accusations.
8. Be patient: In the face of rebellious children, parents should be patient and calm to avoid excessive anxiety and anger. Use understanding and care to resolve children's rebellious emotions and spend the confusion and struggle of adolescence together.